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Ok im Bi and I have a really big crush on my best friend who is straight and a girl. She knows im Bi and she flirts with me all the time as a joke, and ive always taken it as one till I started to get a crush. So now when she flirts I take it for real. I dont know if I should tell her how I feel or just keep my feelings to my self caues I would hate to mess up the relationship bc we have been best friends for 3 years. What should i do?!
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ewww why? get some help.. why did u turn that way? lol anyway just maybe make out with her and maybe youll go out! ok? good bye
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Tell her how you feel, speak from your heart. If she is your true best friend and she doesn't have the same feelings towards you, you both will overcome this and move on with your lives. Even if you don't end up together, letting her know that and overcoming it will make your friendship stronger than it was before.
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Slowly bring it up and judge her reactions. If she seems to be starting to get nervous and stuff, then stop coming on to her right away. You shouldn't just hold your feelings in, but you also don't want to make it so she avoids you.
If she does turn you down, then just forget about being with her in a sexual way right away. But there shouldn't be any big harm in trying to find out how she feels. If she's a really good friend then she'll still be able to hang out and have fun just like before.
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you should tell her how you feel so she knows that u have taken it seriously and that u like her, but dont scare her away because, she IS your best friend.. it would creep me out a lil
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I definately think you should tell her how you feel... That has happened to me before, except it was the other way around! She might be into experimenting.. If she is comfortable with flirting with you even as a joke Im sure she wouldn't mind if you did like her! Just don't be to forward about it... Good luck!
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I think you should tell her, I mean... Since yall are close I bet shell understand... But then if she doesnt feel the same shell know not to lead you on like that... good luck! -Britty-
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Okay, it's haRd foR me to tell you what to do, because I don't know youR fRiend and I have no idea how she would React to news like this. HoweveR, peRhaps you SHOULD tell heR how you feel! If she's Really such a gReat fRiend she'll undeRstand and Respect youR feelings. Goodluck! Best wishes!
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I think that you should express how you feel about her..even though it might hurt you'll friend relationship...it will help her understand how she really feels about you....if you need more advice e-mail me at big_blake08@yahoo.com or add me on yahoo as big_blake08...
P.S Willing to help anyone anytime...
Blake08$$$$
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