he thinks i will run to him whenever he wants me..help :(
Question Posted Tuesday April 22 2008, 1:10 am
heyy.
ok. here it goes.
theres this guy at work..angus..who i like and he apparently likes me. well he liked this girl at work Jose for ages and she had a boyfriend of 11 months. then he met me and he started liking me and jose dumped her boyfriend to go out with angus but angus was like 'I waited too long for you its too late i like ana now.'
and basically he just left her for me
and he did that to another girl before jose.
and now he likes me and hes full like Ana i love you blah blah and he hardly even talks to me.
and he wants to ask me out but all the girls at work are like Dont go out with him he is gonna screw you over and do what he did to jose he will just go off with another girl when he meets one and that he is a player etc etc and i told him about it and hes like Dont listen to them why would i do that to you etc etc
and the day before yesterday i went to visit him at work and he finished at 9 and so i went and came back at like 8:50 and then i asked the people where he was and the manager was like He left like half an hour ago and so i texted him and im like Yeah thanks .. full ditched mee. and so i told him to come yesterday at 3 before i start work and he was like okay and that morning i asked him if hes coming and he didnt reply so i just went at 3:40ish (i started at 4) and he was there with his mates. so i just went right past him.
then when i came out he was like Hey ana! and im like Hi thanks for telling me you were gonna come and hes like Im sorry ana please ana whats wrong .. ana i care about you. why are you angry at me..then hes like i promise i will come at 8 when you finish i promise blah blah. then he went away and then after i finished work i was waiting for my mum and he runs to me and goes to me ana im sorry for always dogging you ana please im sorry i really like you..you can think i dont like you but i really do. i love you ana i love you!
and then hes like i have to go somewhere with my mates
so basically i just saw him for like 2 seconds
how does he expect me to have a relationship with him when he NEVER has time for me? i basically only see him like 1 hour a week..
so i dont know what to do :(
xx
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? cloudy_conscience answered Tuesday April 22 2008, 9:05 pm: Well usually if a guy does something like that once and then ditches you a few times he isn't worth the time of day. I think your best bet would be to just get away from him. It doesn't sound like he appreciates you or deserves you for that matter. He sounds like the typical player and they usually don't change. Be smart and remember, play the game but don't get played by the player haha. [yes cheezy I know.]
AngelofMercy answered Tuesday April 22 2008, 5:07 pm: It sounds as if he is not really wanting to tie himself down at this time. If he truly wanted to work this out with you, he'd find time with you. I'm sorry but I have to agree with your friends on this one. Maybe, this just isn't meant to be. I'd think about going on with our life without him. [ AngelofMercy's advice column | Ask AngelofMercy A Question ]
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