a little long and im sorry...5's for everyone unless your horrible or rude
ok so the other night my guy friend kissed me and it was really great..we made out and it was just great..for thr 4th of july we hung out next to a campfire and we made out..beautiful kisses by the way..and i gave him a handjob and he seemed to really like it..we we played fun teasing games with each other and it was so fun..
the problem? well...he doesnt want a relationship andd im getting real feelings..he doesnt have real feelings..its just fun for him.. thing is i dont like the idea of kissing him one night and having him go have sex with another girl the next night ( i have no idea what he will be up to)
it kinda makes me feel used ...i wish i could just hhave the same mindset as him and not like hi and just be able to hookup with no emotions attached..
so what should i do? my one friend suggsted to just kiss him and become dominant and kind of try to not get lovey dovey and to just have fun..
what do you think?
if you were in my posistion would you continue to hook up or would you not hook up anymore?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? NessaBear answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 3:05 pm: wow thats seriously just wrong. this guy friend of yours is only hooking up for the pleasure of girls to do stuff to him. he is a real jack ass. if he doesn't have feelings for you that you have for him then you should deffiantely stop kissing him and no more handjobs for him. he is using you and thats not right. he only wants the pleasure of sex and if thats the case then you shouldn't have sex just for fun. hope i helped
h3artxbr0k3n answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 2:56 pm: Well,if you're starting to feel for him,and he's just doing it for fun.it does seem like he's using you.id still be friends with him and all,but i wouldnt be kissing him or anything like that anymore,i mean,what's the point of getting affectionate with someone that you have feelings for,when they dont feel the same?
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