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i usually dont have confidence issues like this, but i needed some help, lol.
i`m going to a new high school this year, with mostly new kids. i want to try out for the football cheerleading squad. tryouts are in late july. anyway, i don`t know why, but i`m having confidence issues about it. i`m not sure what they expect of us, i`m afraid i`ll screw it all up, and i`m afraid i`m going to embarrass myself since i haven`t done cheerleading in such a long time. should i just go for it, or forget it?
i`m also shy to tell my family and friends that I want to do it and i don`t know why because really looking at it its not a big deal. i can dance and stuff, but like i said i don`t know what they expect. ugh, can someone give me some guidance? (link)
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ok first of all they usually look for people who are loud, can dance, do flips and stuff, and in shape.
also it depends on how confident you are. so if you think you can do it....GO FOR IT!
hope i helped
kayla
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i babysit 2 kids once a week for an hour (girlsages almost 5 and almost 3) They are lots of fun but we always play the same game (dogs) Im starting to get really bored with it but i dont no what else to play. i dont what to go buy craft stuff or anything i just want some new idea or something. They have low attention spans for the most part and they arent on the same skill/play level so it sometimes makes it hard. what do i do (link)
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man those kids are difficult! well you could play like school, or somethin like that i did with a 8,5,and 3 year old and they loved it. like some up with some experiments and let them do it. ask them questions about it after their done. or....you could play like this dance game. where you play music and they dance and when you stop make them freeze if they dont freeze they have to control the music. and so on.
hope it works
leave a comment
kayla
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There's this one guy & him & I are pretty good friends. I like him as more than a friend & he feels the same way about me... i think. He told me he was considering asking me out. It didn't sound like a for-sure thing though. Basically, he didn't jus come out & admit his feelings, he said he doesn't know. I want him to ask me out but I'm not sure what to do. Also, he doesn't know I like him. Should I just come straight out and admit it?
Thanx,
Nathalie (link)
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yes
kayla
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Alright. I've been dating my boyfriend for over ten months and we've started to have a lot of problems. Around the six month marking period we starting getting into a lot of arguments and got upset with eachother easily. This has been going on for the past three or four months. He's in a different state for a couple of weeks and I usually get to talk to him, but for some reason this trip is different. I've talked to him maybe 30 minutes in total in a week or so. So I went to a party today and I met a guy that I had seen during drumline camps and stuff. He invited me along with a bunch of other drumline people to come over to his house. We got to talking and stuff and he texted me while we were watching fireworks with everyone if I wanted to hang out with him sometime, that'd be fun. So, I texted him when I got home and told him that'd be fun. The thing is IDK what to do. I don't know if i can go on much longer with my current boyfriend the way things are going. This other guy is dropping hints like crazy that he wants to know me better. "I haven't had a girlfriend in over a year, so yeah" and so on. please help. (link)
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ok well break up with your bf and just start hanging out with that other guy
kayla
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Does anyone know how to get rid of burns (from a clothing iron) quickly? How long will it take? Thanks Bunches! (link)
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use some of that scar removal
kayla
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well tomorrow i'm going to the doctors for a check up and i'm 14/f and last time i went they looked down my pants and i think its VERY preverted! ( is that normal for most doctors to do?) is there a way i can stop them??
signed: grossed out (link)
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just tell the doctor that your not comfortable with him doing that. and yes it is normal for most docs to do
kayla
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is there any way you can determine when you have your period when youve had it for a year? (link)
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just keep a calendar of period and that way youll know when its comming
kayla
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I hate the word: diet. Whenever I try to go on one, I always am thinking more and more about the food I CANT eat and then I want it even more. I want to lose 10-15 pounds and keep it off. I started running a mile every morning and eating more fruits and veggies. If there is any more tips that anyone could help me with... that be great!
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eat 5 SMALL meals a day, thats what my dad does and hes lost a LOT of weight. just continue running and eating healthy.
hope i helped,
kayla
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okay so my vaginal opening isn't big enough to put in a tampon. i've tried so many times, i got my period 2 1/2 years ago...i'm 16 and i cannot insert a tampon, i can see the whole but its like as big as like the bottom of a pen..what should i do? i'm thinking about going to a gynecoligist but omg i hate the doctor. i'll rate high. (link)
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ya i think you should go to the doc.
kayla
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i've liked this boy since i was five, and now i am 15. but the problem is that the boy duznt even noe im alive. im right under his nose but he haznt even realized. i dont noe wat do anymore. i cry every night b/c ive tried everything i could think of. its kinda like he's that guy that all the grlz like but he duznt understand that im not like those other grlz. i am actually the one that really cares. ive been in a corner since i was five watching him and now, i dont know what to do. i heard about this website and ive heard good things so if you can help me out, please, i would appriciate it! should i tell him that i like him? or would that sound desperate? i dont wanna be like those other grlz. i wanna hug him b/c i care, not just b/c he's popular. please help me. love, tiana
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just like write him a note and say...
Ok listen, Ive liked you since i was five, and i dont like u just bcuz your popular.
and hopefully he'll do something about it
kayla
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Ok I have these 2 friends. I know them both really well. We are so close. Well today they played a trick on me. They made up a screenname and pretended they were this girl that I hate with a passion. They talked a bunch of shit. Well it got to the point that when the convo was over that I sent the convo to 2 of my other friends e-mail and told them to read it. Well i go to tell my friend about it and turns out it was her and my other friend..The thing that made me mad and pissed off at them is the fact that they said it was that girl and they know i hate her. They completly don't know what happened between me and her and shouldn't have done it. But my ? is .....What should I do about it? I mean it might of been funny to them but they don't know the whole story and it completly pissed me off...Should I tell them it made me mad and that I am still mad at them....But please tell me what I should do....
Signed ,,,,TrueHope10 (link)
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ok my friends did sort of the same thing they changed my grade on my report card!!! they put an F and "im so sorry" lol. well i stared crying!!! when i got home my mom called the teacher and asked her why. and she said she would never do that! so i was trying to figure who did it. and finally i called my friend and asked her if she did it and she said o ya i forgot to tell you. but dont tell the teacher it was me...But i was sooo mad that i called the teacher and told her it was my two friends.
but the after all that i felt horrible for dojn that.
But neways...your question is uh kinda comfusing...so ill just tell you to forgive them like i did. and everything will hopefully be all good...
kayla
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Does anyone know some good hair products that make your hair wavy? I've tried this one product but I forgot what it was called.. it sort of helped but made my hair all dry & straw feeling. Thanks! (link)
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um buy a perm kit
kayla
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ive got all these fruit flies. i think they've nested somewhere in my room! wat can i do?!? how can i get rid of them?!?!? (link)
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uh same here but in my kitchen. i got some roach killer stuff and sprayed it in the air and they died so yea try that!!!
ttyl
kayla
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My mom is an alchoalic..shes not the type that hits people but the type that gets drunk then lays down on the couch and passes out..but shes so embarrasing..like ill have a friend over and she'll be drunk on the coach and i dont know what to say! but my ? is how can i talk to her about her illness? and does anyone else have an alchoalic parent because i would really like to talk to some people and here there stories..so leave me your screen name so we can talk thanks! (link)
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ok well...so is mine. And i have some stories that i would never tell anyone! well I would just ask her if I could talk to her about something and tell her you have a problem with her drinking problem and its bothering you.
hOPE iT wORKS!
-kayla
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okay, so i wanna highlight my hair. i usually go and get it done, but i wanna do it myself this time. however, i dont really have the time to go out and buy stuff for it right now. so does any one know, stuff at home that i could use and how to hi-light it, and not make it look like crap?!
i will rate 5's to any one who helps!
xoxo ♥ Brittany
thanks guys~! (link)
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ok well...I went to the store and bought the stuff. it turned HORRIBLE!!! so i went and got it done the next day at a solon. so uh i cant tell you exactly wat to do so...just dont use store bought dye!
sorry i cant tell you exactly what to do!
-kayla
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ok well last year in 7th grade was the most roughest time ever i could think of!! i was so liked at the begining of the year and people started making rumors up about me and i lost almost every friend....i also got beat up once well i didnt get beat up thats what everybody says i just got in a fight ok and i am just having such a miserable summer bc thats all i ever think about is next year how im not going to have any friends to be with and where im going to sit for lunch and all that ughh i dont know what to do and all my mom says is "i dont know what to tell you" all im really worried about it one person bc she was friends with all the 8th graders and all the 6th graders and shes mean to me and hates me and she could prolly get everybody else to hate me and shes tall and is friends with all the popular people and shes not afriad to come in my face and say crap to me [ITS HAPPEND BEFORE] =[ it just started out i was hanging out with the popular people at the beegining of the year [ i guess thats what i wanteed the most ] and i dont know what happend but they all started hearing roomers and crap and yeah i started to get bad grades and i almost failed 7th grade and all this crap ughhh im not sure if god made all them hate me for a reason? im just so confused=/ somebody please help me ive been going through this forever and i really really need some help please =(
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Man a lot has happened to u! well first of all same has happened to me! except the beatin up part...but i dont think i handled it very well. I moved schools! so i hope i can help you so you dont have to go thew all that kinda stuff...um just try to find some good friends. join some clubs or w/e you have to do to make friends. Then ask em if they wanna hang out with you after school or w/e and eventually youll bcome good friends with them. Hopefully theyll have your back so when the person starts starting rumors about you just let them noe its not true and then your good to go. just dont listen to what other people say about you. i figured that out the hard way. ;] and about your summer...im sorry. join a team or somethin so youll have something to do so itll get your mind off it...
ttyl,
-kayla
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