i've liked this boy since i was five, and now i am 15. but the problem is that the boy duznt even noe im alive. im right under his nose but he haznt even realized. i dont noe wat do anymore. i cry every night b/c ive tried everything i could think of. its kinda like he's that guy that all the grlz like but he duznt understand that im not like those other grlz. i am actually the one that really cares. ive been in a corner since i was five watching him and now, i dont know what to do. i heard about this website and ive heard good things so if you can help me out, please, i would appriciate it! should i tell him that i like him? or would that sound desperate? i dont wanna be like those other grlz. i wanna hug him b/c i care, not just b/c he's popular. please help me. love, tiana
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MELiixMARiiE answered Sunday June 26 2005, 7:39 pm: Well wow. 10 years. I can really see that you do care and you're not like those other girls. Well after all this time, I think the first thing you should do is talk to him. Flirt with him or something. Make yourself known to him. Because maybe if you do talk to him and get to know him, maybe you'll realize you don't like him as much or something. But if you do, I'd say keep flirting, and make him feel like you do care and let him know that you're not like those other girls.. cause if I were a boy, I'd like you for that. I'd find that a really good quality... So basically, just talk to him, get to know him...hope I helped!!
Mackenzie answered Saturday June 25 2005, 1:45 pm: Aww!! This question Really touched me. I can tell you Really caRe foR this guy, so I think you should just flat out tell him how you feel. Just set aside youR feaRs, and go foR it! Also, I think that if you weRe to bReak the ice and tell him you like him fiRst... you'Re wayyy moRe likely to get an honest Response foR him. You can do this; I have complete faith in you, and I think you should as well. :) [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
Faerie answered Friday June 24 2005, 3:30 pm: Hey Tiana,
I kinda have the same problem as you do. I started liking this guy when I was 9 (I'm 16 now) and I still like him. A few months ago, I sent him an email telling him that I like him. Maybe I made the move too fast, 'cause he never replied to the email. It depends on his personality though. I sounded pretty desperate, not to say insane, to my guy. You've waited this long, and there's nothing wrong with that. Try talking to him more, and see what will happen. From experience, I don't encourage you to tell him that you like him. But, still, it's your choice. I hope this helps. (it's my first advice thingy).
danni3 answered Friday June 24 2005, 12:59 am: awwww...
well, tell him, of course. we both now that as hard as it maybe, its the only way. and he wont no until u tell hime. try to get noticed, like wear flirty shirts. make it so he wants to find out about you. it WILL work!!
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~danni<3~ [ danni3's advice column | Ask danni3 A Question ]
Courtney answered Thursday June 23 2005, 9:08 pm: Calm down, relax, and try to talk to him. Try to be his friend first. Baby steps first. Just try to start off with small talk or something that will make him seem interested in you. Try something that shows your uniqueness and how you're different. And get out of that corner. You got to come out a bit more. Just talk to him and don't force it. [ Courtney's advice column | Ask Courtney A Question ]
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