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Question Posted Thursday June 23 2005, 8:22 pm

It has been over 9 months maybe more since i have cut myself.. but lately i really dont care. But see im trying to open up to my friends about this situation. I can talk about it in a journal. i can do w.e but when it come to explainning i chicken out. My moms even worried bout me being all "depressed" and "stressed" is there a good way to calms down a bit. maybe? or just opening up..please i`ll rate 5 if its a good answer and not some fuck just playing around and asking dumb. this is serious... and im tired of peoples fucking stupid remarks.

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TiffanyCroft answered Sunday June 26 2005, 7:59 pm:
I suggest writing a letter to yourself. Tell yourself all of the things that you want to get out into the open, such as the reasons you cut, and stuff like that. When you get it written down, put it away for a few days without reading it. Then, a few days later, take out the letter and read it. It will do a lot of good, trust me. . . or if you'd like to talk to someone, I'm always looking for someone new to talk to. Just email me at teejayvortex@yahoo.com Don't worry, I won't be all adviceish if you write.

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cesoir answered Sunday June 26 2005, 2:17 am:
drugs.

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cat2112 answered Friday June 24 2005, 6:33 pm:
usually if your real stressed out you can find a sport to play..something probably w/ contact maybe basketball. Or some sport you find fun. In your spare time you could find something to do. Maybe like video games or getting outside and running or something. Something that gets your mind off of everything. i hope i helped.
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xxspillmyheartforyouxx answered Friday June 24 2005, 2:45 pm:
aww hunn =(
I know how you feel cause i became so depressed over something i'd rather not say i almost ended up thinking of doing that. but trust me it isnt worth it, and there is a different way to deal with problems than inflicting pain to yourself. Talk to someone about it, a close friend, parent, anyone. they'll understand i promise =D

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TheSouthernChick answered Friday June 24 2005, 1:00 am:
I'm so sorry that you have this problem. It appalls me that you are experiencing a life situation stressful enough that you find cutting yourself to be your best release mechanism or your best way of feeling like you're in control again. This is a serious and harmful way of expressing or dealing with your problems, but you don't need me to tell you that. ;o/

This is honestly way, way, WAY over my head, but I found some articles online that you might find helpful:

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And finally, here's an article about a treatment program specifically designed for people who self-injure: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)

Hope this helps. Best wishes --

TheSouthernChick

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xxurockxx answered Thursday June 23 2005, 10:03 pm:
if you are cutting yourself you either need to figure out how to quit FAST or get the balls and tell your mom that you need help before you kill yourself!!!

just remember:
when you hurt yourself it is so selfish, you are also hurting other people!!!!
more people care than you think and a lot of times people dont realize that until they are dead and see how many people are at the showing and funeral (that happened to my friend last august)
THINGS WILL GET BETTER!!! i promise!!! i was depressed and wanted to kill myself for like 2-3 years and the only reason i didnt do anything is because my best friend told me that if i did she would...now i couldnt be happier!!!!!! i have a wonderful boyfriend and i couldnt be any happier to be alive!!! my life now is totally worth going thru the hard times that i did

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