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Alright. I've been dating my boyfriend for over ten months and we've started to have a lot of problems. Around the six month marking period we starting getting into a lot of arguments and got upset with eachother easily. This has been going on for the past three or four months. He's in a different state for a couple of weeks and I usually get to talk to him, but for some reason this trip is different. I've talked to him maybe 30 minutes in total in a week or so. So I went to a party today and I met a guy that I had seen during drumline camps and stuff. He invited me along with a bunch of other drumline people to come over to his house. We got to talking and stuff and he texted me while we were watching fireworks with everyone if I wanted to hang out with him sometime, that'd be fun. So, I texted him when I got home and told him that'd be fun. The thing is IDK what to do. I don't know if i can go on much longer with my current boyfriend the way things are going. This other guy is dropping hints like crazy that he wants to know me better. "I haven't had a girlfriend in over a year, so yeah" and so on. please help.
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ok well break up with your bf and just start hanging out with that other guy
kayla
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If you are having problems then its understandable you'd look elsewhere. If you don't think the problems with the current boyfriend will resolve themselves then by all means try someone new. The whole idea of dating is to find the right person to spend the rest of your life with. The more you check out the better it will be in the long run. So, if one guy doesn't work out don't waste time (unless you truly feel there is a future there). :)
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It sounds like you already know what you want to do but are afraid of letting go, which is perfectly normal. If things are difficult with your current boyfriend, you need to decide if its worth carrying on with him, especially with rarely seeing or hearing from him. Often in a relationship both parties know that its not meant to be, but are both concerned about hurting their partner and themselves by ending it. Deep down I am sure your boyfriend feels the same way as you do about the situation, and you would be both happier splitting up. However, i STRONGLY advise you do not do anything with this new flame until you are completely seperated from your current boyfriend. It is insulting and unfair to him to go behind his back like that. Also, before you rush into a relationship with this new guy, decide if thats really what you want. Perhaps you were not ready for a relationship yet and thats why things are not working out with your current boyfriend?
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Do what eva feels right. If you love your current boyfriend then dont dump him for the otha guy. But if hes drivin you mad with his moods and stuff...then you should mayb dump him if you want and go out with the other guy. Like I said...what eva feels right! AsH!
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Maybe you should dump your other guy first. It seems like you guys aren`t really pulling it off too much at all, uhh!? So i say dump your guy, and go try someone different, to change it up you know. [no affence but your guy seems well.. dull & problematic..] lol, juss playin =] anyways.. The guy you met at the party could be a good fresh start. Don`t go into this so quickly though, get to know the guy well enough before you start actually dating him & stuff. And if things seem to start looking great with him, go for it!
hope i helped!
xo0x- Kata
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get to know the guy better before anything and hold on to your current boyfriend...dont do anything now it'll be better to get to know this guy better before you do anything then if you feel you start to like him then maybe you really should end your relationship with your boyfriend since you guys've been in lots of fights and seem to be growing apart...hope i helped! goodluck! <33
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well i would dump the current guy and try things w/ this new guy....
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**edit** ok dump your current, it isnt working..seriously it going no where and its just adding more stress to your life. its not healthy! if its meant to be youll get back together after the other guy...he seems to actually like you. <3
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