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hated by almost everybody
ok well last year in 7th grade was the most roughest time ever i could think of!! i was so liked at the begining of the year and people started making rumors up about me and i lost almost every friend....i also got beat up once well i didnt get beat up thats what everybody says i just got in a fight ok and i am just having such a miserable summer bc thats all i ever think about is next year how im not going to have any friends to be with and where im going to sit for lunch and all that ughh i dont know what to do and all my mom says is "i dont know what to tell you" all im really worried about it one person bc she was friends with all the 8th graders and all the 6th graders and shes mean to me and hates me and she could prolly get everybody else to hate me and shes tall and is friends with all the popular people and shes not afriad to come in my face and say crap to me [ITS HAPPEND BEFORE] =[ it just started out i was hanging out with the popular people at the beegining of the year [ i guess thats what i wanteed the most ] and i dont know what happend but they all started hearing roomers and crap and yeah i started to get bad grades and i almost failed 7th grade and all this crap ughhh im not sure if god made all them hate me for a reason? im just so confused=/ somebody please help me ive been going through this forever and i really really need some help please =(
-ashlee
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You need to find someone to be friends with just because you have common interests and can have fun together. Forget trying to fit in with the "popular" crowd. It rarely works. By the time summer is over and you go back to school, a lot of what happened this past year will be forgotten. Just make some new friends over the summer and you will have friends in the new school year. Try looking at the person and not who else they hang out with. I think you will find yourself being a lot happier. :)
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well, get some new friends i mean you won't be friends with the popular people and personally if i were you i wouldn't want to be try to make friends with people who may not be the most popular but then again there is no popularity in like middle school and highschool so just try to be friends with other kids and don't worry bout it enjoy your summer CARE FREE!
the past is history the future is a mystery but the present is a present so enjoey it!
much love
x3 mari
IM ME PLZ!!!!! marzilicious89
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*Hey sweetie.... I'm so sry this all happened! Girls are so mean these days, but this also happened to my friend when she started hanging out with popular people, and what she did worked really well. She joined a sports team, (which popular people are typically not on because they're afraid it'll mess up their physical appearance) and the girls on the team were extremely nice to her. At first, some didn't talk to her because of the rumors, but after a while, they ended up hanging out a lot together. After all, everyone always says "teammates are for life." Try joining the cross country team - they tend to be really close, almost like a family. Just start saying hey to people and being friendly, it almost never fails. Be nice to everyone, even the people who may seem like "losers" or "nerds" to you, because you never know: they may end up being the ones that stick up for you and defend you if that girl ever confronts you again. Also, be confident in yourself because that's something those girls can never take away. If they ever try making fun of you to your face again, simply look them in the eye, and then turn and walk away. Or continue what you were doing - all they want to do is get a rise out of you, and when you act mad, it makes them happy and want to continue. Also ask the new friends you make, (which you will!) to stick up for you some time. There's always strength in numbers. I hope this helps <33 Best of luck =
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wow that sound like alot of stuff that has happened to me. But when you start to be or get popular thats all people do is start rumors hun. There jealous. There mad because your popular and your probally really pretty and they want to be like you.So instead they try to bring you down.They try and start rumors and they try to fight you.But God NEVER puts to much on you that you cant handle.Pretty soon all this will clear up i'm sure. It'll start to get old soon. If you have 1 good friend thats always been there for you keep em'. Dont let them go. Try and make some new friends by signiing up for something in your community or maybe take some Self Defense classes. Then you can make some new friends and learn how to defend yourself. Well just try not to worry about it. If some1 says something say something back that'll shut them up or just laugh and the'll start to think you dont care and their not doing anything to you to hurt you. And the'll get bored. well hope i helped
sorry so long (lol)
cya smooches xoxox if u ever need to talk to some 1 IM me on IxI wun luv ixL
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Be nice to others. Try to make friends. Join a team or club. But NEVER worry about what other people think. If someone comes up to you and insults you or makes you feel uncomfortable, just laugh it off. People who spend all their time making fun of others and putting them down feel really insecure. That 's theory is probably that if all her friends are busy laughing at everyone else, they won't notice her flaws. If she insults you, compliment her. Once she realizes you don't care, she'll find some other poor victim.
Hopefully now that you know how bad rumors hurt, you won't start any and will stop them if you hear them.
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Man a lot has happened to u! well first of all same has happened to me! except the beatin up part...but i dont think i handled it very well. I moved schools! so i hope i can help you so you dont have to go thew all that kinda stuff...um just try to find some good friends. join some clubs or w/e you have to do to make friends. Then ask em if they wanna hang out with you after school or w/e and eventually youll bcome good friends with them. Hopefully theyll have your back so when the person starts starting rumors about you just let them noe its not true and then your good to go. just dont listen to what other people say about you. i figured that out the hard way. ;] and about your summer...im sorry. join a team or somethin so youll have something to do so itll get your mind off it...
ttyl,
-kayla
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Alright i went threw this also but in 6th grade but things got better i started hanging with kids with the same problem and then more and more people wanted to hang with us.. i ignored those other kids who starting a bunch or BS its stupied.. and about this summer dont worry about take things one step at a time dont think a about the school year think about what is going to happen over this summer and when school starts.. dont worry about those things forget about it they will eventully do the same good luck <3 ash
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Aw geeze hun, I don't really know what to tell you either. But, all I can say is, now you know who you don't need to be friends with. Is there anyone who stuck by your side the whole time? If there was, then you know now who your true friends are. If there wasn't, well try making new friends. And not with anyone of those people you stabbed you in your back. Just think of this as a life lesson. I know it's hard but you just gotta keep your head up and forget about all of it. Good luck hunny. Keep me updated!!!!!!! :D Hope I helped!!!
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