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I never see him
me and my b/f have been going out for a month and i never see him...he is always working. he said he will make time for me but he never does....i really like him and dont want to dump him but idont see how we can go on like this!!!
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Does he not have any days off? If he can't spend at least part of his day off with you, or hang out after work with you once in awhile, then find a new guy.
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hey!
i think that you should talk to you boyfriend and say look i really wanna see you but you are always working and i know that is important but arent i too you say that your gonna make time for me but wheres the time.
good luck
<3 MiSs SaRa**
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♥There is no point to this relationship if you and your boyfriend never get to see each other, you know what I mean? If you really don't want to take a break for a while, do all that you can to see him during the day. At work if he has a lunch break, set a time for you two to go have lunch together, or bring in something for him to eat. If there is no way, you just need to talk to him (if you can find the time..) and tell him that you want a real relationship, and you want him to spend time with you. If he can't pencil you into his schedule, he isn't worth your time. Don't completley dump him, take a break, then give him another chance (if you can't find another guy that can give you what you want).
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When you have a job, and a girlfriend of boyfriend it can be hard. Especially when you work a lot. Does your boyfriend drive? If he does, ask him if there is any possible way he could stop by just to see you for a little while maybe before or after he goes to work. I'm sure he does not work every day, so maybe when he gets his schedule for work you could plan something ahead of time for a day he has off so he doesn't plan something else before you get a chance to ask him to hang out. If he is hanging out with other people, especially girls..that would be when you should get worried. Because that might mean he is trying to avoid you or ignore you. And now I can see why it would bother you so much, because it is summer and you can't see him in school or anything. I would suggest just giving it time, to see if things improve. If not, maybe you two should take a break, until you have time for each other.
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well.. where does he work? maybe you can go over where he works just to see him and have a little chat. or if you can drive why dont you ask him if you can drop him off at work and then pick him up after and you's can go out to eat right after or something.
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Tell him...and say if you want to be together then you'll have to change, if not I'll give you a week and then we'll just have to be friends.
hope I helped
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You have to remember that he is working, and think of how hard it is for him.. i mean i bet he feels the same way.. but you guys should really set a day date to fgo out. What i mean is plan ahead and pick a day that both of you guys are free.
♥ Kerry
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Dump him. If he can't make time for you, you shouldn't waste your time waiting for him to make time for you.
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you need to let him no how your feeling.. that's the only choice to let him know that your NOT okay with not ever getting to see him.. if he really likes you i'm sure he will understand.. and make time for you.. or else it wasn't meant to be you know?.. hope i helped and if you need anyting else just let me know!
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why thank you! you made my day :-D
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