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hey♥ i have been with Tim off and on since february vacation but at the end up may we started actually getting close and can talk about anything now. we have been goin out and we hangout alot ( we`ve already had sex, so dont critisize) but today i noticed he asked me something that i was sort of worried about before. me and him were sitting at dunkin donuts and he was like " do you seriously love me" and he was the first guy i have ever said it to and i said of course i do, alot and i told him he has no idea what he means to me, then i asked why? and he was like i love you and like you alot, and sometimes i think you dont and your randomly gunna not like me and break up with me. it was so weird! like i dont understand why hed say that, should i be worried? then we were across the street outside and he was gunna go in and get something but these guys came out of a store and sat in there car and tim waited till they left to go in the store because he thought they would talk to me and id do somethin.. id never do that.. whats some ways i can show him how much i love and care?♥ thanksss!
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Well tellin him is always good.. maybe tell him more often.. but dont tell him so much that it drives him crazy.. by the way im not here to critisize you thats your business.. well talk to him about this tell him how you feel about him not trusting you and tell him why you want him to trust you.. i mean thats what you can start out with.. ♥ Dez sorry if i didnt help you out to much but thats what i would do hun..
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Wow. you must really love him. What you could do to show him how much youlove him is kind of plan something romantic, Maybe dinner, or movies at your house, and every once in a while.. whisper in his ear how much u care for him... and when hes around his friends .. just randomly hold his hand.. Remember guys have a EGO .. and its kinda like Male PMS haha. Explain to him how much you really love him, and let him know if you didnt really love him .. then why did you come back to him. Maybe try something new, something to get him a lil excited, and to know that you are always thinking about him .. Well i hope i helped.. and if there is anything else i can do for you.. Just ask <3
x0o Kerry
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Ok first off about the sex. I am not going to criticize you since this is a personal choice that everyone must make for themselves. However, I wouldn't feel comfortable with myself if I didn't at least mention to you that you need to protect yourself if you are having sex. If you have any questions on that, feel free to ask.
With that said, it seems to me that your boyfriend is feeling a little insecure. Try to figure out why that is. Has he had someone cheat on him before? Many men and women tend to judge their partners on what happened before. I myself was guilty of it. My ex cheated on me so it was a long time before my husband could convince me to trust a man again.
There's many ways you can show him you love him. Let him know that you've never told anyone that you loved them before. Giving him a hug or kiss and telling him you love him every time you see him is a good start. Find out what his favorite dinner is and surprise him with a candle lit dinner. Write him a little note telling him why you love him and slip it in somewhere he'll find it when he's not with you.
Give him a hug or kiss just because. When he asks what it was for, tell him just because you love him.
If he likes to work on cars, help him. Most guys know their tools enough that they can say get the long skinny thing with the big red handle (a screwdriver lol). Even if you don't get his tools for him, just talking to him and spending time with him are key. If nothing else, you can bring him a drink when he gets hot.
Take him on a romantic picnic. Pack a basket full of food, a CD of love songs, and a blanket and go somewhere you can be alone.
Make him a CD. This is a good one. My husband listens to his almost every day. Pick songs that have special significance to your relationship. Ex: your couples song, the first song you heard together, the first song you danced to, a song that tells him how you feel when you're with him, etc.
Make him a love box. Take an old shoebox, decorate it, and fill it with little notes on what makes you love him. Ex: his smile, the way he holds the door for you, the way he's always there for you, etc. Whenever he's feeling down or having doubts about the relationship, he can read one of the notes and be reminded of your love.
The following sites have thousands of ideas for couples to show their love. These are great resources I use myself when I can't come up with an idea to remind my husband I love him.
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Hope this helps keep your relationship going strong. Good luck and best wishes.
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aww sweety your relationship seems to be going so good! i dont know why he would think such a thing
show him how much you love him leave him love notes talk to him explain to him that you trust him and he should do the same it seems like he doesnt trust you alot you could mention that and ask why he seems to think such things
tell him how much you love and adore him and there isnt no other guy in the world that could replace him
i hope this helps let me know how it goes if you need anything at all drop one in my inbox ♥
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If he's asking you if you love him and stuff,a nd you say you do, then he's just making sure that you won't lave him. So don't worry.
A way to show him that you love him more than anything is to do things that he adores. Like his favorite things to do and take him out to eat and stuff like that. And when you have a chance, tell him that you love him more than anything in the world!
Hope I helped!
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Well it sounds like Tim thinks your a really amazinq qirl.. and he thinks that if your alone with other quys that they will fall in love wiht you liek he did and try and do stuff with you. You can just hanq out with him alot and kind of put a hold on other quy friends. i meen if your really that serious about this quy, then you need to make him trust you. set up a romantic date like going out to eat or somethinq and write him a letter sayinq how much you care about him. Don`t qive it to him while your with him, mail it to him or somethinq so he reads it alone. hope i helped ! -courtney. if you need any more help invite me in a chat plz dont IM me. BR0KiN x PR0MiSE !! plz rate ! =)
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It sounds like he is insecure. Try doing little special things for him, like leaving short notes for him, candy, making his favorite foods, etc.
But be carefull. SOmetimes insecurity can lead to becoming very possesive, which can lead to abuse. So don't let him be too worrried. If he starts trying to control you, tell him that you love him, but you need your freedom.
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you can like blame him for feeling that way..im not like saying your a bad girlfriend or anything..but maybe in his past he never really cared about anyone as much as he does you and hes scared of loosing you! Tell him how you really feel about him,share all your goals and dreams in life,cook for him
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Talk to him let him know that he should trust you and that you will never cheat or betray him.Let him know how much you love him by doing something romantic for him maybe like making him dinner and lighting some candles up ,listening to soft music . Seems like you both love eachother alot.Maybe he just doesnt want to get hurt that is why he asked you all those questions.Hope I helped ♥Kate
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