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my friend?
my friend is giving me a really hard time, because i didn't go somewhere with her, she makes fun of me and my myspace [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
and she makes fun of me because she really doesn't know me... like she makes fun of that i don't have a bf at the moment, she acts like my time keeper, she schedules things for me, she hurts me, and she gets me in trouble, ALOT.. so how can i make her calm down and stay the way we were or not? help mee!!
o and yeah, she really REALLY needs some help, i didnt go somewhere with her and she is like "you know what? im never talking to you, dont call me, dont im me anymore, and dont even think about me, or visit my myspace, or even look at my things, i sware to god, if you do, you won't be alive by the next day" so she really needs help, badlyy, MENTLE PROBLEMS? maybey?
x0o PLEASE HELP MEEE PLEASE!!!
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Okay i say.. ditch her.. listen to wut she said dont talk to her dont have anything to do with her.. its not right for someone to treat you like that.. i wouldnt take that from anyone and i dont think you should.. so i think it would be a good idea for you to just steer clear from her..
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Okay she's really rude! I wouldn't really consider her a friend, because friends DO NOT make fun of eachother and stuff and hurt eachother... and if she's getting you into trouble ALOT, I don't think you should be hanging out with her then, cause you might get into some SERIOUS trouble. But this girl sounds like she needs to change her attitude.. yeah I definetly wouldn't hang out with her AT ALL. I would just focus on finding some new friends...just do as she says. Don't IM her ; don't call her ; don't look at her myspace... just leave her alone and stuff, and then everything will be fine, cause it sounds to me like you shouldn't bug this girl =/ I mean if she is telling you that if you even look at her myspace then you won't be alive the next day? This girl sounds like she has a problem... I might wanna talk to your parents about this and see what they think of the situation. Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
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Someone who flips out like that isnt a friend and they dont deserve the privilege of being called one. Hey i think ur myspace is fine. As long as your happy then what does it matter to anyone else, and as for the "friend" you need to dump her ass. Tell her how it's goin to be, and just because there is shit mest up in her life doesnt mean that she can bring you down too. Well hope I helped sum
♥ Kerry
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hey laura? guess who?
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umm no wonder she is making fun of ur myspace!! change your "about me"
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She does need help....and if she makes fun of you shes not your friend....talk to her about how your feeling and if she still acts immature then just tell her you dont want to talk to her anymore( :
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OMG! She seems really mean!! Why do you want to be friends with her? She has some major insecurity issues. If I were you I would find some better friends, fast. She makes you feel bad, hurts you, gets you in trouble, and threatened to kill you!?!? I don't know about you, but these are not the qualities I look for in a friend. Let her know that if she wants to be friends with you she's gonna have to change her attitude. If she has a problem with that (which she probably will) focus on other friends, like I said. Hope you get this worked out!
X0C0URT
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She seems to have some anger issues and you really don't need people like that in your life. I'm being honest. Because if you stayed friends with her you'd be dealing with her shit all of the time. And that is not your problem, it is her. If she becomes reasonable and realizes that she'd been a bitch to you than I'd give her a chance. Because she came to the conclusion that she had a problem and she's willing to as you to forgive her which means she's trying to fix it.
If you don't wanna do that than you could tyr talking to her about it. Explain what you think she did wrong and if she would try and get herself under control. If she starts to complain and or get fiesty about it she's just being immature. And you would seriously do much better off on your own than with her.
Like I said, talk to her and try to get through to her. If that doesn't work just forget about her. If after awhile she realizes her own mistakes she's becoming aware of her actions and deserves another chance. But if you find her being how she was before just let it go and stop associating with her.
Love,
Mandee
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She may have mental problems... but it sounds like she's just got some juvinile issues, and she needs to learn how to grow up. Seriously... ditch her. You don't need friends like that. Trust me, I know how hard it is to just stop hanging out with friends(especially in highschool), but you deserve better than that, and I'm sure you could get better than that. If you continue to hang out with her she will only drag you down, and you wont reach your full potential.
Good luck sweetie!
<3 Nyx
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What kind of friend is this? She isn't your friend. She doesn't know you, she makes fun of you, she gets inraged when you don't go somewere with her, and she threates your life? Get as far away from this girl as possible, then get her some help by telling somone, like and adult or counselor about her.
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it seems to me like your friends really is having some MAJOR problems at the moment. so wat if you dont have a bf?!?!? thats none of her bisness. i think you should call her up(even though she doesnt want you to) and say your sorry you couldnt go. tell her that your sorry but you cant do everything with her. also tell her that friends dont make fun of eachother and you get alittle annoyed. but dont yell at her or anything though.
i hope i helped!
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drop this girl like a hot tomato..im a preppy girl and i have a ton of friends but if a friend isnt treating me right((this happened to me once)) i told her how i felt and told her if she didnt get her act together about w/e was going on me and her friendship would be over........TALK TO HER, ((if shes the kind of abbusive type, i'd write a note or call her, haha))
.XoX.hope i helped.XoX.
--Taylor*Bear--
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A true friend would not get mad at you for not going with her somewhere or make fun of you. If you feel that this is someone that you do want to be friends with, sit down and talk to her and tell her that while you appreciate her help, you prefer to schedule your own time, and that her remarks are hurtful to you.
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