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over protective
i am a 14/f and i am the oldest from my sisters. well my parents are Over protective like the other day i went outside to take a walk with my sister and my mom made my dad come after uis. but anyways i have a boyfriend (Which i am not supposed to have) he is 15 and i like him a lot. but i need to get a way so that i can get out of the house and spend sometime with him with my parents bein able to trust me.. they always think i am up to something bad and they think my boyfriend is only a friend of mine. he lives about a 15 minute drive away from me and i want meet up with him how can? and if i get my friend to go to the mall i dont want her to be left behind because he will be with me and if he brings a friend my friend wont like him because she only likes italians... so yea i really some help. please.
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tell your friend your situation and ask her to go with you to meet up with him..tell her that she can bring someone with her so she's not left out. im sorda in the same situation, i know it sucks. hope i helped & good luck with everything
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well; going behind your parents back isn't going to make them trust you more. so you might as well have him over to the house a couple of times; and wait until your parents really like him. then you should tell them that you have feelings for this boy. but going behind your parents back and lying about who you'll be with won't make them trust you more or like the boy.
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Well okay if i were you i'd have him over to the house. THats what i do. I tell my parents i kinda like him but i dont know yet. THat way they can meet him. And if they like him they will be okay with him coming to the house more. Then you can break the news and tell them that you really him. But going behind you're parents back will make a bad relationship with you're parents, and a bad one with you're boyfriend. And about the mall. Do you only have one friend? Bring a different one. Or a group of them. That way they can go off and you two can be alone. or the movies is alwasy a good place =)
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Your parents are just looking out for you. Since they think your boyfriend is a friend, ask them if he can come to your house to watch a movie. If they agree, wait a while after they've got used to him being around and then tell them you think you like him. They'll appreciate your maturity in coming to them first and probably let you continue seeing him.
Good luck.
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hello<3 i think that you should tell your parents how you feel and just let them know, you like this boy and he feels the same for you!.. if you dont want to do that, then maybe go to a friends house with him or bring another girls friend to just be friends with his friend.. no body said they had to like eachother. or maybe movies would be fun?=)
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okay well... your parents are going to have to let go sooner or later.. and with that they will learn to trust you.. it's just not going to come as easily as you'd like.. especially if you're their first child.. they never had the experiecne to have a child grow up before their eyes.. so you are the guiene pig. as for the boyfriend situation.. get a whole bunch of mutual friends together.. that way your friend is not left behind, your bf's friends may be italians and when your parents ask.. you're hanging out with your "gal pals" so a few guys just come along.. big deal.. they're gonna have to let you grow up eventually.. why not start here? good luckk
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Hey .. yeah my parents were the same way. Im sure it's not you they dont trust, it's everyone that us around you. I have heard that from ym parents before, what i did was when i wanted a boyfriend, i didnt sneak around, and make my parents wonder. What i did was talk to my mom about it. We were in the car, and i was coming home from cheer practice and i told my mom about this guy that i really liked, she was so happy that i talked to her about it, and she told me hey.. have a life, soo i thats when my parents started to let me date, Let your parents know that you are growing up and they cant treat you as if you were 4 years old. Tell them to trust you more, and make your own errors in life. Just talk to them, im sure they would understand, and if that doesnt work .. Gasoline and a match will do the trick♥♥♥♥
Hopei helped out
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