i recently i needed help with my g/f and i wasnt sure if i should break up with her or not.....well anyways, i broke up with her and now her family is mad at me and she told me that she was crying and everything like taht and now i feel really bad but i want to be friends still but she told me she still like sme......im So lost =(
IM GOING INSAINE!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? charmed3fanatic answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 12:20 am: don't worry about it.. girls of course will cry.. she just really liked you.. but oviously it wasn't working out.. so just tell her "sweetie i know you still like me and all but i want to be single for a while and who know's maybe after being single i will realize how much i liked you but i want you to know that i want us still to be friends and be close like we were when we were going out" believe me this may take some guts but as long as she knows that she is still in your heart she will be fine.. but she still will be sad.... even if she still likes you.. you should still tell her bc she needs to be re ensured that if anything happens that you are there for her 100% ... hope i helped.. and i hope everything works out alright for you! [ charmed3fanatic's advice column | Ask charmed3fanatic A Question ]
Razhie answered Monday June 13 2005, 10:47 pm: Don't go insane over this. You did the best you could for both of you ending the relationship if you weren't happy. It's easy to say you want to be friends, but for now you really have to give her space to deal with the breakup.
You can't help her through her problems right now without making them worse, so please take care of yourself and let her family (who obviously care alot to be so mad) take care of her [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
MmSBaBe167 answered Monday June 13 2005, 10:43 pm: ok well if you just want to be friends shes like really trying to push you but do what you feel is right she cant decide for you plus I bet you had your reaseons why you dumped her no worries things will go fine good luck
iSpEaKsPaNiSh answered Monday June 13 2005, 10:40 pm: give her time away from you to get over you...but don't lose touch completely. it will take a long time to build a friendship again so just be patient..i'm sorry.. [ iSpEaKsPaNiSh's advice column | Ask iSpEaKsPaNiSh A Question ]
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