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Okey, so i dont really know what i need help with, i just needed to talk to someone. Im soo sick of appearance being everything! Last summer, i got a makeover at a beauty salong..and the week after that i met a couple of friends that i hadn't seen for a while..
And now, im gonna see them again..and they've told everyone they know that im coming and that im really hot and stuff..so everyone is gonnna be expecting me to be gorgeous!! And im really not, i wont afford going to that beauty salong again :S and ive gotten fatter since then..and my hair is messed up, and my teeth are yellow :( im soo freaking out at the moment..i mean i dont wanna let my friends down..theyve gotten more popular since everyone is hanging out with them so they'll introduce them to me..
And imm not gonna be hot anymorwe :( they're gonna hate me, and im gonna hate myself. theres no way i can get hott in 2 weeks, or is there?
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First off, I want to say that you really shouldnt care about what people think about you. If they really are your friends, then they wont care what you look like...they'll care about who you are. Thats what a real friend is. They most likely wont care what you look like, but just incase, I will try to help you. About your weight...it depends on how soon you are going to see your friends. You could go jogging on your free time. Jogging is a lot of fun if you take your iPod or something with you. You could do 500 crunches everyday before you see your friends...it really works well. Also, if you get any magazines, they have tips on how to work out...and sometimes have yoga moves for you. If you dont have any mags, then try getting some from people you know. About your hair...you dont need to go to the most expensive salon. You can find quality anywhere. If you still cant get your hair done, try something new. You can deffinatly get your hair looking good. Think of a new hairstyle or something like that. If you have money, you can go to the closest CVS or something and buy some stuff...like do it yourself highlights that your mom or friend can help you with. Your teeth can be fixed within a week. Again, if you have money or can get money, Crest White Strips work SO well. Within the next day my teeth were much whiter.
If you cant get the look that you want, just do your best. Your friends shouldnt care what you look like. If you arent comfortable with your apperance, then draw the attention to your personality.
Hope this helped. Come to me if you have anymore questions...I'd appriciate it. =D
dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT
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Ok, so in a year you have changed, and they don't know that. This has happened/will happen to almost everyone. At some point most people will get fatter or break out or loose an arm (ok maybe not that one) or change in some way. As much as you think that they will be judging you based only on how you look, its probably more your personality and how much fun they had with you that they remember. Think of the worst thing they could really say...Oh, she gained some weight....they won't talk about it for more than a second (most people are too concerned with themselves to worry about anyone else). Besides, being hot is an attitude. If you don't feel confident about your teeth then use whitening toothpaste, buy a cute new outfit that flatters you. If you go in there feeling (or even acting) confident about who you are, everyone will notice you as the cute, confident, fun loving hottie.
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