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Member Since: March 8, 2005
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Last Update: March 8, 2005
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My family is extremely well off money wise. And so are the kids that go to my high school but my family kind of has more money then most of the people in our neighborhood.

Well, I've been talking to a few girls at school about our prom dresses and theirs are around 200-500 dollars. Well, I found the perfect dress but it's 1,500 dollars. I'm supposed to go buy it this weekend but there's a problem. It's not that we can't afford the dress, because we can and my parents think that it's a good amount to pay for it. It's that I don't want to be the only girl there that paid over a thousand dollars for a Prom dress. I don't want people to talk about it or anything.

Should I get the dress even though it's 3 or 4 times more than what everyone else is going to pay for theirs?
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I think that if you really like the dress, which it seems like you do, then go for it. It's nobody else's business how much you paid and if they asked, you don't have to answer. Just say it was at a good price. I mean at least you're gonna look good right? =)


hey,
I have this problem with a guy named Matthew. We have been best friends for over 4 years. Recently we both fell in love with each other. I least I love him. He always wants to mess around and he says it means something. To me it really does. He claims he wants to loose his virginity to me and claims that that would bring us together. Would that actually bring u apart? Help! (link)
Losing your virginity to somebody is a big deal. I know that I would want it to be with someone that I really care about..but for this question, I think you should just go with your gut instinct. I hate doing stuff with guys and then feeling like they used me, it's not right. You really just need to talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. Then just do what you think is the right thing. This isn't really a subject that other people can tell you what to do.


I have a friend (lets call her gina) and she'll be my friend for one minute and egt mad at me for nothing the next. and im really getting tired of it. its getting old and she's kinda popular and hangs out with a lot of my friends but if i get mad at her, she gets other people involved in hating me and if shes mad at me, so are they. what should i do. P.S, I rate 5's
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Brittany, it seems to me like this girl is definitely not a TRUE friend. What I would do is try to ignore her attitude as much as possible and don't show her that you care when she gets mad. Most of the time this will show her that she's really the one that needs to work for your friendship and not the other way around. As far as getting other people involved, they shouldn't get mad at you if it's not their business so they must not be worth the stress. Hope it helps =)
- Elyssa




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