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Friends with benefits
hey,
I have this problem with a guy named Matthew. We have been best friends for over 4 years. Recently we both fell in love with each other. I least I love him. He always wants to mess around and he says it means something. To me it really does. He claims he wants to loose his virginity to me and claims that that would bring us together. Would that actually bring u apart? Help!
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I don't think you should have sex with him unless your ready. He might just be playing you to have sex. I would talk to him about it, and see if he is being honest with you. Ask around, see if he tells that to every girl. Besta Luck
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Rule number one is that boys will say ANYTHING that will get them what they want.even the nice ones.Keep this in mind at all times.Being friends bring people closer together more than anything else.Don't be pressured to do something you don't feel comfortable doing.If he truly loves you he will wait until you're ready.If you decide to go along, remember to use protection.
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If yall trust eachother, I believe it will bring yall closer together. If yall are best friends yall should be able to trust eachother enough to love eachother enough to be able to do that.Just make sure you are ready and follow your heart!
x0x-Sarah
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If you truely love eachother than you'll do it when your BOTH comfortable, and he'lll respect you if you don't want to do it yet. Sometimes it can bring you closer, or tear you apart,sorry if that didn't help too much.
Hope I helped some-
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well, dont do anything unless you are 110% sure tha you want to. your virginity is something very special, you should keep it for when you are married and with someone who cares about you and who will stay with you weather or not you get pregnate. Your virginity is something special to share with your husband when you do get married.
Be careful!
Hope I Helped-
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*Kels*
~P.S.--I Think that he is using you:/~
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yes i think it would because i learned in sex ed class (i no stupid) that all guys want right now is ur body.
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My advice is , if you want to be friends, then shut him down all the way, RIGHT NOW.
You can never regain lost innocence, and don't kid yourself: you will never NEVER be able to go back to being the friends you once were - it's impossible to do.
Sex is both the best and worst thing on earth. Best in marriage, worst in any other relationship.
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I also have a friend, and we recently started goin out. If you're comfortable with "doing stuff" with this boy, then u should. However, explain to him your feelings before you do anything. It'll help...trust me
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Losing your virginity to somebody is a big deal. I know that I would want it to be with someone that I really care about..but for this question, I think you should just go with your gut instinct. I hate doing stuff with guys and then feeling like they used me, it's not right. You really just need to talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. Then just do what you think is the right thing. This isn't really a subject that other people can tell you what to do.
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that wont bring u closer together it will make u guys feel akward around each other
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Well.. yeah it could bring you apart.. umm no offence but you shouldn't be doing ANYTHING like that until you're married.. do you really want him to do you then leave you? ... how would that make you feel ... also an age would be helpful.. but i'm guessing your like 14-17? ... and even that's too young- wait to find the one you love, not JUST friends with benefits.
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