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my friend has depression and wont take her pills.


Question Posted Monday March 14 2005, 3:57 pm

my friend has depression and shes not taking her pills and she doesnt realize it makes her worse. she thinks it makes her better. and we got into a fight and we are over it now but i dont want this to happen again. she thinks the pills dont help but they do!!! and i dont want to lose my temper and say "WELL IF YOU TOOK YOUR PILLS WE WOULDN'T BE IN THIS SITUATION!!!" because i know thats mean. but i dont want to just sit here either?

any advice?


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karenR answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 8:23 pm:
If she doesn't take her meds let her mom know.Depression isn't something to mess with, especially for teens.She won't like it but you need to do it anyway.Her mom probably won't tell you told her if you ask her not to.

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JadedinNowhere answered Monday March 14 2005, 10:36 pm:
You know.. when you take pills you feel sort of controlled, backed into a corner.. don't you think that maybe she's feeling sort of trapped. You've got to be patient because it's all her decision. I have a few friends that are ADD and sometimes they are just sick of taking the medicene.. I mean I had to take a bunch of pills once for strep for about two weeks and I felt like I was gonna crack. I felt like all my emotions and feelings were controlled by it.. and being myself I hate being controlled or forced. Why don't you try and be conciderate of her feelings, you'd probably feel the same way. In the meantime try and be nice? I mean what could it hurt.. maybe that's the kind of medicene she needs.. a smile, a hug. Just some suggestion, and advice as always. If you need anymore, I'm always around. :)

!Sarah

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xoiiloveyou143xo answered Monday March 14 2005, 7:04 pm:
Maybe your friend doesn't want to accept the fact that she really is depressed. I recommend being patient with her and trying to talk to her about what she is depressed about. Maybe you can help her realize she does need to take her medication..in a subtle way.

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SimplyMe answered Monday March 14 2005, 6:07 pm:
Well..taking her pills probaly makes her feel 'different from everyone else..like she's a freak because she's on pills..' ..just talk to her about it..try making a compromise, like taking half of her prescription..like half a pill instead of a whole..i dont know..there is probaly a bigger reason then the fact that they dont work..just talk to her..

-Christine

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jeanine278972 answered Monday March 14 2005, 5:32 pm:
Take her pills for her! HAHA!! They really work for gettin high for a lil while! Cept you can't sleep if you take them at night.. so i recommend takin them before skool.. then your high all day... and dont sleep through class!!

HAVE FUN

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TheTeenGirl answered Monday March 14 2005, 4:36 pm:
My advice is to tell her parents. They need to know, but you pobably can't get some sense into her, so her parents would be the best solution.



-TheTeenGirl

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baybexmau831 answered Monday March 14 2005, 4:32 pm:
accually i know someone who takes those pills for depression and when you take them it makes you lazier and i think she'd be better off without them .. but if you really want her to tell her mom or dad .. hope i helped .. Love MauramOo

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