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friends irritate me!!...
is it just me?...or is it just the way my friend acts?...or are others like this also?..
there is this girl Angie...ive known her for about 4 years already..theres time where were close, like best friends. but lately shes been so annoying!..i get so irritated by her!..juss things she does!..shes so fake! and just doesnt know how to be herself! and she'll be so loud just to get attention!!...
anyone else hate this about someone?!
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okay i know EXACTLY how you feel.. last year i ahd a best friend named Danielle and i loved her with all my heart but just the smallest things she would do irratated me! ad i didnt know what to do, so i just stayed away for a little while and kept a little space between us , and now we're best feiends again! i mean its totaly normal to get annoyed with people, it could aslo be stress, whenever i ahve a lot of homework or boy problems or wtvr i always tend to bring it out on other people (bad habit lol) so try relaxing or take my first thig about the taking a friends break! TRUST ME! your totally fine1 lol hope i helped, good luck! xox ari
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she is just trying to figure out who she is. she is just trying to decide what she is going to be like, and just trying to change and see how she wants to be and stuff.. She'll come around, just give her some time, and be paitent, i know its hard, i have a tun of friends like that!
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well, I knew this was probably happening to other people but yea.. I feel the same way about a few. Just know that the person is probably feeling conflicted about who they really are. I'd give it time, and she'll figure it out.. she can't act like that forever.
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Maybe you are becoming irritated because you see too much of her. When you are hanging out, instead of noticing the negative parts right away, try looking for the good things. That should make your experiences more enjoyable and you may forget to notice her annoying habits. YOu could also try putting some space. Don't make it seem like you are trying to push her away, as you could lose her friendship, but just put some space when you guys hang out. That way you can aprreciate her habits all the more and your friendship will be better. Hope I helped ^_^
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i hate that bout my ex friend stephanie..well she like usually was real cool and we were close but then she became a big ass follower jus to fit in.. like she started to do drugs and cause she stayed wit me she thought she had to change cause people i hung round...she thought she had to act real hood *ghetto*.. and then like my friends made fun of her for it cause she wasnt her self...it really got annoying and also was embarassing cause she reminded of the guy off that move malibu's most wanted.. but i wouldnt hang round this girl angie if i was you.. much luv dez
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Ok, I'm interpretting this as... You love Angie like a best friend, but sometimes you get annoyed with her even though she doesn't start to act any differently.
That's normal. My best friend is also my roommate. I love hanging out with her, but we see A LOT of each other.
Once in a while, everything she says will make me want to scream, even though she really isn't doing anything different. I'm sure the same thing happens with her about me.
During those times, we just go do seperate things. It's only going to do good things for your friendship if you don't spend every day hanging out. Take a break once in a while and go hang out with other friends.
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i have a friend like that and its DRIVING ME crazy!! so i cant really tell you what to do
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ahhhh girl... i knoww how you feel!! lol!! just tell her she needs 2 chill out.. and if she doesnt listen.. then you needa point it out when it happens.. lawddd.. i know how it feels 2 have someone aggravatinggg!! haha! hope i helped! lots of love!! ~rachel leigh~
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dear angie issues,
yes, ive felt that way. you just have to "teach" angie to be herself. you don't have to tell her shes getting on your nerves but you can give her hints. whatever you do, be nice. sort of act low key around her and maybe she will too. if shes one of those people that you can't belive watever she says then don't believe whatever she says! and remember, you don't always have to spend time with her. you can do whatever you want. if she wants to hang out after school, say you don't feel like it, or say your probably going to be busy. don't hurt her feelings because its probably a phase. just be patient.
((shortie*))
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it's not you, it's most likely her being annoying. it pisses me off when my best friends change to get attention. so if i were you, i'd talk to her.
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well of course it can be annoying but you might not be giving her the attention she might need, and that might be the way she is, maybe that is 'herself'. so it might not be so much that she's changed but she isn't getting the attention she needs. so show give her some more attention, and is that doesn't work, i would say its almost like a phase shes going through. i hope i helped.
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Yeah, practically everybody. I've rarely seen girls who aren't like that. It's funny, you see tham and they greet each other and start talking... and the one is wearing a huge, massively fake smile before they even know what the other is talking about... and don't get me started on excessively loud people.
But that's just me. I don't think that people really change, so there's some chance she'll go back to acting normal eventually, but I don't know if it would be possible for you to cause such a change. I (personally, of course) would just avoid her, but that's not an effective way to keep friends.
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That could be annoying... but me and my friends are never quiet lol. ;)
Try telling her that shes awesome and doesnt have to get attention, she already has it. Try telling her that you dont like when she does it.
sorry i cant help more
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Hiya,
I know exactly what you mean. The thing is, nobody is perfect and even though your friends may seem so at the start, after a while you'll begin to see their 'faults' and they are gonna change. People change, and that's just the way it goes, however much it sucks. A real friendship is the one that survives the changes.
If this is annoying you so much, point it out to Angie - don't be all 'oh you're so fake' because that'll just hurt her. Just tell her that she's changed and you miss the old her and your old friendship. Chances are, she knows she's changed and is waiting for someone sensible like you to come a long and have the guts to tell her so. She sounds pretty insecure about who she is, so if she realised that enough people like the old her better, she might go back to how she used to be.
Good luck!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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