I have this friend who always talks about me but is like in all my classes. I don't really like her but my other friends get all mad at me if i get mad at her. Should i just tell her i dont wanna be her friened or should i be her friend?
LindseyNicoleQ answered Sunday March 13 2005, 12:29 am: Well, if she talks bad about you then that wouldn't really make her your friend. And also, if you don't like her, why should you pretend to like her just so your other friends will be happy? You should think about what YOU want; you shouldn't pretend to be friends with someone. If you don't want to be friends with her, don't tell her that, just go on with your life as if she was out of the picture. You should kinda ignore her, but not really rude, you know? Just like a casual smile once in a while will do.
Hope I helped!
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JadedinNowhere answered Saturday March 12 2005, 7:11 pm: I think that if you two really don't get a long that you should try and ignore her. Try and explain to your friends that just because she is their friend, doesn't mean she has to be yours. Sometimes people just don't get along, that's the natural order, people shouldn't be forced to get along because sometimes it just doesn't work. You don't have to tell her you don't want to be her friend, just explain that you guys just can't be friends, it's nothing you have against her, you guys just don't get along. Hope I helped, always.
MummuM answered Saturday March 12 2005, 2:24 pm: I don't think you should be friends with her, especially if all she does is talk about you. No one should have friends like that, it shows you couldn't trust her. And in a friendship you need to have trust. So really, if I were you, I wouldn't be her friend at all.
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needadvice? answered Saturday March 12 2005, 11:21 am: well i would ask her why she talks about me if i ever did something to her.....them explain to her friends what she does....dont be enemies but dont be best friends be more like acquantences.... [ needadvice?'s advice column | Ask needadvice? A Question ]
angel05 answered Saturday March 12 2005, 6:18 am: if they were true friends then they would understand and wouldnt get mad at you if you were mad at 'this friend'. [ angel05's advice column | Ask angel05 A Question ]
ShYbl0nD3 answered Saturday March 12 2005, 1:53 am: Well if you dont like the group your in ditch them and find better friends, cuz i wouldn't wanna stay in a group of friends that talk trash about you. [ ShYbl0nD3's advice column | Ask ShYbl0nD3 A Question ]
mizzthang91 answered Saturday March 12 2005, 1:36 am: haha lol i have the same problem. all my friends thought i was mean cuz i hated this bitch CHAYA (sorry lol) anyways so i told them that she was a whore and i hated her and they all thought iw as mean until she punched me hehe (i slapped her back) ANNNYYYWAAAYYYYS... screw what they think if you have a problem with someone they're probably fucked up and have no life anyways .. sooner or later your friedns will notice that!
hope i helped!!!
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karenR answered Saturday March 12 2005, 12:18 am: If you don't like her then she isn't your friend. You don't have to all be friends with the same people.
Just tell them ALL that you don't like for people to talk about you behind your back and anyone who does isn.t really someone that you need for a friend.Don't single her out.
ashLeycee14 answered Saturday March 12 2005, 12:07 am: Well tell your other friends you just dont really like her and tell her that you dont like her. You dont have to be friends with her just because your other friends are. Hope i helped. xo- ashley [ ashLeycee14's advice column | Ask ashLeycee14 A Question ]
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