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should i do it yet?
ok i really wanna do it but im only 13 and in 7th grade. is it wrong 4 me to even be thinking about it bcuz i really want to have sex. Is it okay for me to lose my virginity yet?
sincerely, confused
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No, it is not alright. You are waaay too young, and you have no idea what you would be getting yourself into. Do you think being a mom in the 7th or 8th grade sounds like fun? That's very well what could end up happening. I'm not saying it's wrong to think about it, just don't do it. Trust me, you will totally regret it. Once you lose your virginity you can never get it back. NEVER. Get that through your head. I don't mean to lecture you, honestly, I just don't want you to do something you will regret immensely in the future. I doubt this is a result of peer pressure, because I don't know what seventh graders run around pressuring each other to have sex... But your body is changing, you are around that age, so inevitably you have some hormones going crazy in your body. You can't help that, but you CAN show some self-restraint, and self-respect, and wait to have sex. What has happened to good, old-fashioned morals? And besides that, along with sex comes huge emotional obstacles and stress. I don't care how mature you are for your age, no seventh grader is ready for that. Also, I don't know where you live, but most places would consider someone having sex with a 13 year old as rape. So besides being wrong, stupid, and irresponsible...it is most likely illegal as well. Alright, well I hope this has answered your question. I really didn't mean to be harsh, but its for your own good. I hope you make the right decision and wait. Leave me a message in my inbox if you have any more questions, I would love to help you out with anything.
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your at the age where you think about sex a lot more often, and i dont think its a great idea for you to lose your virginity at this age. it could be harmful to you mentally, escpeically if a lot of people find out, and if you do... you better use proctection because if oyu get pregnant at that age, one you would be like seen as a really bad person i guess (i dont no how to put it in contex), and second you could get a disease that affects girls that are impregnanted when they are your age, or even older. so if i were you, i would wait, at least until 15 if this is like your goal in life. but just wait a while. now is kinda soon.
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um.. your 13.. no..
wait til your married..
by golly what have kids turned into these days
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