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Ok this is a serious question and please don't delete it! Ok I've been bestfriends with my bestfriend Katie for over 6 or 7 years or something like that. Ok well the problem is recently like around newyears she got back together with her X boyfriend who used to hit me and say bad things to me and stuff. I really did think everything changed. UNtil the other day it got real serious and we got into an actual fist fight! and I know this isn't right. I just don't know what to do. The other day I started crien and walked away. I don't know what I should do. I don't want to loose my bestfreind because we already had a seperation because of this. This is getting really serious and Im afraid if I don't do something about this I will get hurt not only physically..emotionally to..
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weeellll tell her to dump the Ass and if she doesnt listen then tell her you LOVe her with all your heart but you cant be around her when she;s around him! xox Ari -HOPE I HELPED!!
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Oh my gosh! Does your friend know? I'm guessing she does... In this case, she is not being true to you, at all! Best friends should put you first, not their abusive boyfriends! Tell her how you feel, if you havn't already. If she does nothing at all to change the situation, she don't even deserve you as a friend. I personally think you should tell an adult, or even the police about this. No guy should hit a girl, EVER. I'd really like to know what you do, so please e-mail me back ro something. Hope I helped, good luck sweetie, you don't deserve this! <IMG src="[Link](Mouse over link to see full location);
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Wow, I'm really sorry about all of this. You definitely need to talk to your friend and tell her how you feel. Tell her that you don't want to fight with her, you just want her to be alright, since this guy was abusive to you and you don't want the same thing to happen to her. Explain your reasonings to her and show her that she needs to watch out for anything in this relationship. Nothing will happen if you don't talk to her. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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WOW* I think you should talk to yourBest friend about it..tell her about how he use to hits you and says bad things..if she if you real best friend she will understand. But you got to sit her down and be really serious..bc i mean this is a serious problem-:|:- Good Luck-:|:- hope i helpd XOXO Michelle
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Alright this is serious so listen to me. If Katie really is your BEST FRIEND, then she will break up with this guy for you. I mean, you got into a fist fight with him and your SCARED of him. If shes a real friend she will put you before that guy and break up with him so you can be safe. Thats what I would do. I mean, every girl has to put her friends before her man. If she cant learn to accept that then she isnt a real friend. Its just wrong for a person to pick her BF over her bestest buddie. Trust me on this one. Tell me how it turns out and I hope I helped.
xOo Nikki xO
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I think that you should tell your best friend how you feel and what he is doing to you. If she can't take that as a hint then that is her problem not yours. Explain to her that you don't want to lose her as a friend but you don't want to keep getting hurt.
Good luck!
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Okay..does he hit you playfully.. or ACTUALLY HITTING HITTING YOU? like does he hit you hard? because if he does thats harassment.. you could get him in big trouble for that.. and if he is.. damn forget about talkin to ur friend and parents go to the police.. report what hes doing to you and you can get him for harassment.. <33
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wow this is a really serious problem. You DEFINITLY should talk to katie, and tell her whats going on. You also need to talk to one of your parents because they can help you to. If these fights are happening on school ground, I suggest talking to a teacher or a school counseler. You need to tell your friends that this guy is hurting you and if she doesnt listen,( i know this may really hurt to hear this and im sorry) you may need to find some new friends. I really hope this helps!! Good Luck!!!
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You've got to remember that guy who hits girls, they never change basically, unless they seek help, and you friend needs to hear this from you. If she cared about you, she would stop dating the guy, and she wouldn't tell him to just stop because she needs to know that this has happened in the past, too. She may think this is love, but its actually not, and she needs to get rid of him, or she will be hurt too.
-TheTeenGirl
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that sux... but try talking to her about your feelings and tell her that you don't want your friends ship to end because of some stupid guy... but serioucly, talk to her about it. and hopefully everything goes good for you two!
wish u luck!
Natally*
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o0 wow that sucks! c you need to talk to your friend about this and not just continue fighting! the only way you can settle this is by talking to her and tell her exacaly wat you just said!
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