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how do i choose
16 female. I really love my boyfriend but I'm kinda interested in this other boy that i met. I don't want to break up with my boyfriend for the other guy because im afraid that im going to lose him forever even his friendship. But i don't want to lead the other boy on. Some of my friends say i should choose the other boy and some of my friends say i should stay with my boyfriend. I need to know who i should choose. Please help.
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This is not a matter of choice. This is a matter of heart. Interest is not love, my dear, and no relationship is perfect. There is an old cliche that states "The grass is greener on the other side." You need to ask yourself if you would still be as interested in this other guy if you were single. Are you just feeling comfortab;e in your current relationship or are you seriously in love with your boyfriend? This is a serious problem. If you don't think long and hard about your reasons for feeling as you do for each guy and then base your actions on understanding yourself and your emotions, then whatever you do will be the wrong thing. No one can tell you who to love but your heart. Luck and Love!
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If you really love your boyfriend, then you would want to stay with him. The other boy might be a crush, and your feelings might go away after a while. Don't flirt, or lead him on, stay with your boyfriend.
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if you really love your boyfriend and you know it, you should stick with him becuase you will prolly lose him, yah you might have a crush on this other guy but do you really know him? he might just be a player or just wants you to break up with your boyfriend so he can have you for a week or 2 and break up with you. stay with your boyfriend intil you actually get to kno this guy cuz you mite do sumthing you REALLY regret if you dont.. hope i could help Good lUck!
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Well if your just going to continue to like this other guy then maybe you aint ready for a stable relationship..but if you think your going to hurt this guy your with then dont even fuck wit it.. i mean dont mess something up thats good *if its a good relationship* and jus keep being friends with this other guy.. and just tell him that you wanna be freinds and that you have a boyfriend.. Much Luv ~*DEZ*~
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Alright, your boyfriend is a sure-thing. The other guy isn't. Stick with someone you know that cares about you. You still like your boyfriend don't you?
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i hate to say it, but only you can decide this. Just clear your mind, and decide. I promise you will make the right descion
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