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Is he embarrased to be seen with me?
there is this guy i go to school with and he is popular. All the girls think he's so cute. (including me)He is a hottie very cute. Recently i was in the liabary and he walked up to me and asked me out on a date i was shocked out of mine. I could not understand why he asked me because i am not one of the SKINNY, PARIS HILTON, popular brand name, expensive close wearing girls. I shop at target. I was so flatterd i said yes quickly. we went out on our date and it was heaven. He kissed me passionatley and asked me to be his girl freind. Just when i thought this was the man of my dreams he turns to me and says.... "Oh yeah about tonight and our relationship don't tell anyone about us. I'm a private person and i would like to keep this to my self." I was so offened by this i could not speak.I just nodded my head and went along with it beacuse he was still so cute. When he sees me in puplic it's like i'm thin air he says nothing to me. As soon as his friends are not around it's all hugs and kisses. My question is could it be that this guy is embarrassed to be seen with me?
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OKAY...ya know what? *hold self back* he.. doesnt even say HI to you in public?? ARrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Don't be fooled by his looks.. PUHLEASEEEE..I know it's hard but looks arent everything. Dump him..and if ya want you can even dump him in public ;) Now..wouldnt that be great?
But yeah..I mean its up to you, but if I were you I'd seriously dump the creep and leave him alone and missing out on somebody who could have been great for him..that person is you. He doesn't know what he's losing. He doesn't even know what he HAS. You're not a toy, and you'd be better off with someone who will kiss you passionately in public..or at least say HI to you..geeze..
*makes the sound of an airplane going down* dump him..just..dump him.
`jeSsie
*huggles*
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Ok Gurl,
it looks like this guy is ashamed of being with you around his friends, and thats NOT how its supposed to be, if he is ashamed of being with you around friends than hes not worth having you, ask him why is he doing this and tell him that you dont like that.
has he had a gf before that you know about? and how was he acting with her?
good luck nad tell me how it goes ok? plz.
xoxo amore
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He's deff embarassed he is afraid of waht people think. You are like the girl in the movie "A walk to remember" dont let him get away having a secret relationship and if he really loves you then he shouldnt be embarrassed to be with you. Also, ask this question to yourself "did he go out with other people and make it public?" good luck i hope i helped xo0xo
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i would personaly think he is embarrassed to be seen with you...because he is so popular and stuff and all the girls like him so he doesnt wanna be embarrassed by all of the other popular people....because if he doesnt want to be seen with you maybe he isn't very bright.If he was true enough to be in a relation ship it shouldnt matter if you are being seen! I hope i helped you out if you ever need anymore advice just ask me! XoXo Jennifer
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Yes his is... DUMP HIM
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I think that he just doesn't want his friends and other people to know and maybe hes just embarassed. and you don't need to be the Paris Hilton type to get the guy and he may like you because you are normal and he find you attractive. He shouldn't care on what other people would think because if he really liked you then he wouldn't care on what other people think and hes being stupid.You should dump him if he keeps doing this and itz upsetting you. Good luck! <3 Peachgirly
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He probably is embarrassed to be seen with you. Or maybe he just isn't ready for people to think he is ready to settle down. Talk to him about it. It doesn't matter how hot someone is, if they don't want to be seen with you, there's no purpose in going out with him. Besta Luck
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It could be that or maybe he just wants to keep it a secret. I mean, some guys just dont like their friends and other people getting involved with your relationship, which is fine, but sometimes can be a pain in the butt. But if he IS embarassed to be seen with you then I say to DUMP the guy no matter how cute he is. I mean, your perfect guy wont ever be embarassed to be seen with you. Just ask him and tell him to answer you honestly. Nobody deserves a BF that's embarassed to be seen with you. Its just WRONG. If you need anything, you know where to ask me ;]
xOo Nikki xO
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Hes obviously not a good guy, its kinda obvious that he doesnt want to be seen with you because you not "popular" like him. I think you should should talk to him and tell him that if he keeps on ignoring you in public then youre going to dump him. get him to change his act. -Cortney-
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This may sound bad, but...
First off, he kissed you passionately on your first date, and doesn't pay attention to you in public? Okay, this may sound horrible, but it sounds to me like he's taking advantage of you--he may just want you for your body at the moment.
1) he kissed you and THEN asked if you'd be his girlfriend (he knew you were going to be weak at that moment)
2) he's popular and KNOWS that he can get any girl he wants
On the other hand, he may really like you, and simply wishes to keep it secret because if you DO break up there won't be as much gossip.
I would advise you to be careful about this guy...but, as others have said, you should talk to him about how you're feeling. Communication is a key to a good relationship!
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okay he might just be very to him self and doesnt like to share every aspect in his life with the whole school or just ask him why so then you can find out yourself
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That could be it, but I doubt it. If he was a nice person and all, he would tell you the truth, maybe he is a private person. =)
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Well. I think that he May be emmbarrased too be seen with you or maybe He just is one of them Shy guys that dont like to tell anyone Whos he's with and Stuff like That.. and i think that if he wont tell anyone and is "emmbarrased" to be seen with you then you should dump him because guys aren't supposed to be like that. And Then he treats you like nothing when all his friends are around. Thats not cool.
x o AnJeLiCa
Hope i Helped!
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Yes, he is probably embarrassed to be seen with you. Has your boyfriend ever dating girls who were really pretty, skinny, and own brand name items? If so, maybe your boyfriend doesn't want to be picked on by his friends because you are different from his other girlfriends? You need to talk to him and ask him why he acts if though you aren't there when his friends are around. Tell him how you feel and ask him if he can actually start talking to you at school when he is with his friends. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Try asking him. He could at least treat you like a friend in school. Maybe he is embarrased to be seen with you. Put then He wouldnt of bothered asking you out. I have friends that do those same things and its really bitchy of them... sorry I cant help more
N I K K I E
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You've gotta talk with him, ask him, he had the guts to ask you out, so I'm pretty sure he'll tell you why he wants this relationship a secret. And if he says "just because." Say something along the lines, "Well, without a good answer, or the truth, I feel like nothing to you in public, all of the signs about you treating me like air in public are signs that you are ashamed to be with me, so it would just be really nice to know the truth." And if he doesn't explain it still, you need a new guy, and don't worry, you will have that feeling about another guy like you have for this guy, it takes time. You need a guy that would even kiss you in public. And you will have that guy, you're still young, so your just searching, lol.
-TheTeenGirl
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yep he is. You must scare hiss balls away. Hope you hump him!! screw his brains out!! HAHAHA LMAO U SUCK DIPSHIT
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well number one) he could really really like you but just doesn't wnat his friends to kno becuase your not the kind of person he usually has the reputation to date number two) he is just trying to prove to himself he can get any girl he wants number three)i would talk to him and ask him why. becuase i really don't want to get hurt becuase he might be playing you. but really hope number one is what's true.
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Most likely he is embarresed to be seen with you talk to him about why he dosent want to be near you in public
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Yes, hes embarased to be with you. Get someone else hes not worth your time.
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