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Please answer! I need to know!
Aright well im 14/f and me and my b/f have been together for almost a year...and he hasn't tried anything, I mean im not waiting for him to do something with me...but is it weird that he hasn't tried anything after almost a year or does it just mean that he really loves me? Like he's always all over me and touching me, but whenever im around me friends they just keep on askin me "have you guys done it yet?" and ill just be like "no" cause we havn't. And sometimes they just end up saying that he's stupid to not try doing it with me (i don't think that) and that they expect us to do it now that we've been together for almost a year! So I need to know does he really love me or is it just weird?
Thanx
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I think he just respects you. dont listen to your friends opinions because after all who is in the relationship? all of you? i mean if you ask for advice then fair enough but just tell them to back off a little. maybe your both just not ready to have sex. dont do it just because your friends say you should. you are obviously happy with each other the way things are so dont ruin sumthing good. look, he could be pressuring you ans asking you about it all the time! which would you prefer? (a bit of a no brainer really) so just say, the next time your friends say some thing, that you know he respects and cares for you and thats all that matters!
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No, those people are weird.. yes he really loves you.. i would kinda be a little iffy w/ my b/f if he tried to do it w/ me! i mean were too young..! dont you think? hes not weird hes more like respectful!!
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Sex and love can be two very different subjects. Don't base one on the other
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It shouldn't matter what your friends say. If you and your b/f dont wanna do it you dont have to. it is all up to you and not your friends. Hope i helped
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are you like dumb or something maybe hes respecting you or hes not ready but like you could alwaysz talk tp hiim about it or you can make the first move...hope i helped
xoO Carly oOx
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No, it's not weird at all! You friends are totally wrong. Try to remember that you are only fourteen, and just because you've been with him for a year doesn't mean at all that you should have gone all of the way yet.
It sounds like he loves you to me. And that he respects you, which is one of the most important things in a relationship.
Good luck,
Sophie xxx
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Look. I'd take that as a sign that he really loves you. Or, he doesn't feel that he's old enough to have sex, maybe he's one of those guys who are saving it. Do you feel as if you're ready to deal with the pressures of having sex? If you really do, and you want to with him, then maybe you should talk to him about it. Ask him why he hasn't tried. You might be suprised. He may not be trying because he feels that you don't want to.
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well personally i think its weird, but hey im a guy, see girls think very different than guys, there are many ways to look at it, i see it as hes afraid (or gay) but you see it as he loves you. and its good that he is with you for YOU not your ass.
-Dr.Phil
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I think he loves you because if you have stayed together for this long then i think that maybe he thinks he doesnt need to have sex with you to be happy.
But when something comes up then just do it if you love him because im sertain that he will deffinatly want to have sex but he wants you to know even if you two dont have sex that he loves you.
Hope I hElped.
x o AnJeLiCa o x
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YES! HE LOVES YOU!!!!!!!!!!
HE LOVES YOU SO MUCH THAT HE KNOWS THAT YOU SHOULNDT HAVE TO DO ANYTHING TO STAY TOGETHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
that is sooo important.
doing stuff may seem cool now, but when your older you'll be glad that you didn't because even doing little things leads to regreat and then leads to doing more things wich can lead to pre-marital sex.
stay with this guy- he knows what the deal is!
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your only 14! dont have sex! thats gross. tell people that you didnt do it and your proud. hes probably not trying to get you to do it cuz he thinks hed be putting too much pressure on you, that means he really love you. hope i helped
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have you guys even kissed? if you havent then you should make the first move but he must really like you because if he wanted sex and stuff right away then that would be using you and he seems mature! x0
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dont worry about it. the reason why he hasnt done anything yet is because he really cares about you, and he wants to make sure youre confortsble. or hes just not ready. dont rush it because it'll make both of you unconfortable. and dont worry about your friends. its all about the 2 of you. hope i helped!
~*ana*~
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he must love you because if he did have sex with you that means he could have been using you just so you can pleasure him...i think he realizes you are way too young for sex...
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He probably loves u but he is a afarid to make the first move...maybe u guys should talk about hooking up
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he respects you... you are only 14 so you shouldnt do anything, and he cares about you and your feelings so he doesnt want to pressure you... youre lucky to have a guy like that! hes a keeper... good luck!
--lucky
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More and more I feel sorry for guys to have to put up with us (girls) he tries something we say it's wrong they don't try anything we say is it weird (well you say) You are 14 you do not have to do it at 14! If he has stayed with you for so long he does have strong feeling for you. Screw your friends and don't pay attention to them. After you do it and if something happens they will call you a slut and other things. Think with your own head and do what ever you want to do when you are ready.
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Its not weird at all.Maybe its his way of showing you that he really cares about you,and maybe hes waiting until you say something about it.He wouldnt want to make you feel uncomfortable by doing something you dont want to do.Just try talking to him about it.
<3Leandra
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you get a guy that respects you like that then you dont wanna lose him. your a lucky girl. ignore your mates. your 14, you dont need sex. you should feel good about yourself. you can have a great relationship and not worry about him using you for sex. congrats!
~ange
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It's definitely not weird that you and your boyfriend haven't done anything. It shows that he loves and cares about you and doesn't want to rush you into anything. If he is always touching you and being around you, then that's good and you should respect that. Maybe your boyfriend isn't ready to go further? Try talking to him. Why don't you take a chance and kiss him? It will show him that you are ready and want to do something. Ignore your friends, they don't need to expect anything between you and your boyfriend. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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