ok one of my best friends has really strict parents. theyre making her go to military school cuz she got one D on her report card! shes leaving next year and i dont know if i can take it. shell be at school all week except for the weekends. i dont know what to do shes the only person that makes school a little more fun. im really sad. how can i get over this?
XSugarPieX77 answered Sunday February 20 2005, 11:23 am: Just remember that shes your best friend and hopefully she always will be. Try meeting some new people who you can hang out with during the school year. Read the book "sloppy firsts" and it will talk about a girl and her best friend moved away and she sent her emails and letters all the time and they were like 6 states apart from each other. Hang out with her on the weekends. School might be sad for a little while if you depend on her for makeing school more fun so you have to just try and get through it.
~Brina~ [ XSugarPieX77's advice column | Ask XSugarPieX77 A Question ]
x_o_AnJeLiCa_o_x answered Sunday February 20 2005, 10:55 am: you cant just get over it, she's your bestfriend. i think that maybe you should try to spend as much time as you can with her. Try talking with her about the memmories you did have with her. i thikn that maybe you to should go to the mall or something and just hang out before she goes.
Whatever you do.. like when she leaves ..dont mess up in school and at home over that.. But When she leaves you should just Try to Find someone Else. That can make your school a little more fun. ..
xoxbellabebexox answered Sunday February 20 2005, 10:54 am: there really isnt anything you can do. just make those weekends when you see her really special
Kels answered Sunday February 20 2005, 9:59 am: Well, I dont have any advice. I just have had the same experience. My Best Friend, Emily, moved, 5hrs away *(about, depending on how fast you drive)* She was my best friend Since 2003. And we were inseprable. We did everything together, at school, and at home too. And She movied this Year on the 1st day of school,(Aug.18th, 2004) And I am okay that she is gone, I have stuck with the people that i sorta was with when she was gone, but i have been through alot of friends this year trying to find one like her, your lucky tho, because your friend is only going to Mil.School, she'll be back, my friend wont! well, like I said, I dont exactly have any advice, but I have just had the same experience as you! So Maybe you'll find some advice in what i was saying. I guess I do, actually- just start hanging out with groups of people, because if you just have one best friend its hard because if they get sick and miss school, then what do you do? so make sure you stick with a group of friends, thats what i do now, even though i still miss my freind, i have pic's of her, and other freinds too, in my locker! :)
Karen answered Sunday February 20 2005, 9:04 am: Once she leaves, you need to keep in touch with her by writing her letters. When she comes home for the weekends, spend as much time as you can. Try to not think about her all the time because everything will just be worse. Hope I helped :)
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
SugaHigh answered Sunday February 20 2005, 7:47 am: Talk to her on the phone as much as you can. And if shes going next year maybe theres a way you can go and visit her. Try to plan a going away party to make everyone feel better and do as much as you can with her now. They did go overboard... and im sorry for your friend and you. Just make sure you stay in ocntact... sorry :(
DrummeR4LifE answered Sunday February 20 2005, 3:24 am: Well the best thing to do is to just keep in touch with her. Make sure you still talk on the phone and try to hang out with her even though she's going to a differnt skool.
h.i.h.
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Link answered Sunday February 20 2005, 12:50 am: Well the only thing i can think to tell you is you will just have to look foward to the weekends coming more there is really no way to get over it [ Link's advice column | Ask Link A Question ]
consortofvenus answered Sunday February 20 2005, 12:44 am: Keep in contact with letters and however else.
Otherwise, distract yourself as much as possible with other friends and activities.
Just remember not to get so distracted, or that you avoid it so much because of the pain, that you forget how good a friend they are all together. It's happened to me and I hate it. [ consortofvenus's advice column | Ask consortofvenus A Question ]
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