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Is she my best friend?


Question Posted Saturday August 21 2004, 5:16 pm

Hi! Well I'm new to my high school and there's this girl (Anna) and she was so sweet. She's been new before so she knows how it feels! But anyways, she came up and talked to me in 1st period and was like r u in journalism w/ me? and so she striked up a convo. Then the next day she asked me to go walk around w/ her before class so I wasn't in class all my myself. Then after that we started writting notes back and forth a lot! She even hooked me up w/ this guy I like a lot! I feel really close to her, we talk about stuff that normally I wouldn't feel comfy sharing and I think its the same w/ her! She has lots and lots of other friends but I'm not sure about 1 thing! I know she's my best friend but am I her's and how do I know if I am!?!?!

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orphans answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 12:31 pm:
i no how that feels it's like they r the best friend u have but ur not sure if they r UR best friend. Just tell her that u share things wit her that u wouldn't tell anyone else and that she's like ur best friend. hopefully she gets the hint but if she doesn't just ask "who's UR best friend". Hope i helped! if u need anymore advice im me on littlehelpergurl.

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JennaRESPECTS answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 7:35 pm:
well I think you should just ask her, if she is that nice and comforting to you,you probably won't be nervous to ask her b/c you consider her as your best friend.Just strike up the question in a conversation.

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Mackenzie answered Sunday August 22 2004, 6:33 am:
I think that's iRRelevant. It seems like you guys have a gReat fRiendship goin' heRe, so just appReciate it foR what it's woRth, and don't woRRie youRself about the title. Go with the flow and have fun! Hope I helped!! =D

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sweethart034 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 11:33 pm:
i don't think that u need to know if she is ur best friend...if u guys r there for each other whenever u need someone she is ur best friend

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xlostangelx answered Saturday August 21 2004, 10:29 pm:
well, wait until she sayz it to yu..i wuldnt exactly say that to her just yet cuz it mite freak her out a bit since itz soo early in yur friendship (as it soundz..) .. and yu shuld jus keep on going the rate yur going!! lookz lyk the 2 of yu can become great friendz!! so jus wait til she throwz that idea out first...if yu need more help, ask

lOvE aSh

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llgngstachic answered Saturday August 21 2004, 9:15 pm:
it doesnt matter if you're her best friend or not. you could be an extremely close friend, but not her best. if you know most of her secrets, and everything else, then you most likely are her best friend

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tink17 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 9:06 pm:
It sounds like you may be her best friend, but the best way to tell if you are her true best friend is ask her. Just tell her how you feel, tell her that she is your best friend and you wanna know if you are hers. tell me how it goes **Tink**

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MrsPhelps answered Saturday August 21 2004, 8:51 pm:
I guess there's only one way to know: ask her.

Although I'm pretty sure I already know that you are her best friend, because of how nice she is and how open you are with each other. Some people are just best friends like that, *snap*. Some people are just meant to be there for each other and share things that you have never shared with others before. Like soul mates, only soul friends.

It seems like this girl is very nice, and likes to do nice things for you (such as walk around with you before class so you weren't all alone or hook you up with some boy) and be open with you. These are all the signs of someone who has found a best friend.

But, to be sure, you should just ask. Tell her that you really like her a lot and that she is for sure your best friend, but you want to make sure that you are hers as well. It shouldn't be hard, considering how much you have shared with her that you didn't feel comfortable sharing before.

As always, do what is right by you, and your life can't help but turn out okay.

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brittishbaby answered Saturday August 21 2004, 7:11 pm:
you could ask her straight out... "so whos your best friend around here" or something like that. if u need any more info ask me!!

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