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mom's a b..
i've been with my b/f for 5 almost 6 months and my mom thinks he has been telling people that we have been doing stuff. and she says she doesn't want me with him and if she sees me or finds out i'm hanging with him, i'm gonna be grounded for 2 weeks. the thing is if i'm not aloud to see him of course i'm gonna sneak around.. so i dunno i need advice like, what can i tell my mom so i can be aloud to be with him, or if i have to sneak around what do i do when she finds out or something before i freak.. thanks.
- lheather llynn x
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if your mom is reasonable then ask her what made her think that he is saying stuff about you behind your back, she will most likely give you the "boys will be boys" speach in which case you will respond with "but then why did you go out with dad?" she will most likely asnwer with "I was older then you are" you then answer "back then that was the age to start dating, did grandma (important to use grandma and not "your mom") let you go out with dad? she will say "no but thats different" at that point she ahs backed herself into a corner keep asking her why its different and you will get your way
option #2
Have her meet the guy and see how nice he is
option #3
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WELL YOU SHOULD PROBABLY TALK TO HER FIRST, LIKE A SERIOUS TALK, SIT DOWN WIF HER&EXPLAIN SHIT... IF HE IS TELLING PEOPLE YOUR DOING STUFF&YOU ARENT, YOU NEED TO DUMP HIM NO MATTER HOW IN LOVE YOU ARE BECAUSE IT COULD SERIOUSLY FUCK YOUR REPUTAION UP&HAVING A BAD REPUTATION WILL FOLLOW YOU ALL THRU HIGHSCHOOL!!....BUT IF YOU DECIDE NOT TO TALK WIF HER, THEN TELL HER YOUR GOING TO A GIRL FRIEND'S HOUSE, OR MEET HIM AT THE MOVIES WIF ANOTHER GIRL FRIEND&ONE OF HIS FRIENDS SO YOU BOTH CAN GO YOUR SEPERATE WAYS&YOUR MOM WILL NEVER KNOW.
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well i am a pretty bad kid like to my parents so what i would do is see him anyways and then if she grounds me i leave anyways...i went through this situation before and it works,she has to understand that you are a kid and kids are gonna act like kids and this is a good experience for you, and what happens if you guys are right for eachother, what if you guys get married and have kids, she has got to understand that shit...good luck, tell me how it goes I me on sexybabiiJ
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Tell your mom how you feel about this guy. Try to reason with her and get her to see him for the person he is. Explain to your mom that you really like this boy and you are not going to stop seeing him so she can either accept it and let you see him or you can sneak around and lie to her. Use the whole "you cant choose who you love" speech. Works every time :)
Hope I helped!
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