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caught doing bad stuff Well, a couple nights ago I had some friends over and we were in my room drinking a little. :-\ and we did some stupid stuff though and my mom found out and she wont lemme do anything anymore!! Help!
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The truth is, you have to face up to the consequences of your actions. You've been caught out doing something wrong, and you will have to work to regain your mother's trust. The best way to do that is to gracefully accept your punishment, however much you dislike it. Hopefully dealing with your punishment in a mature way will show your mother that you've learnt from the experience. After a week or so, it might be worth talking to her about what happened and what reasonable boundaries are - should you be drinking in the house? If you do drink, can you be trusted to do it responsibly? etc. It'll take time and effort on both your parts to clear the air, but hopefully if you deal with the situation calmly and responsibly, she'll see that your ready to be allowed out again - but do expect some time in the doghouse before this happens. Good luck! ]
Is it bad 2 be in love w/ ur bff (hes a guy)? ]
Show her that you're responible. And be honest with her. Tell her that you HAVE been drinking and drinking is part of growing up. Its a learning experience that we all go through no matter what. And when you go out drinking, drink responsibly. ]
It would help if they were boys or girls? And are you a boy or girl?
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that was sorta ur fault for being dumb and drinking. so therefore u cant blame ur mom. and she has every rite 2 punish u. sorrie i know im not so helpful but im not trying 2 be mean. but u shud understand why she is doing that. and try learning from ur mistakes, and maybe talk 2 ur mom about it.
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well tell youre mom that you learned youre lesson, and tell her youll NEVER do it again (and if you do make sure she DOESNT find out)... and just beg her to let you do stuff, and tell her it wasnt worth it.
hope i helped :-/ .. if you have any other questions feel free to ask! ]
Haha ive had that happen to me before i kno how ya feel...somehow u gotta show ur mom u can b responsible...like clean for her babysit ur lil bro/sis if u have one...thas wut i did n i got my freedom bac bcuz she trusted me ]
Well you cant blame your mom...your gonna have to sit down and talk 2 her and tell her how bad you want her trust back its gonna take a while..i hoped i helped rate plz ]
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