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stupidd playerrrs


Question Posted Saturday August 21 2004, 7:02 pm

my boyfriend after 4 years of dating...that the whole thing was a bet to see how long he could play me!!! wtf is up with that?!?!?!

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XxSXyKaYlYnXx answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 8:32 pm:
Eh SoUnds LIke That THing thAt Was ON TruE Life WherE the Guy plAyeD hiS Gf Tha WhOle Time- But ConFroNT him AND SeE IF ThaTz The ReaL truTh. MaYBe sOMeone iS lYin To yah- OR if He TOld YaH thaT it CouLD JUSt Be An ExCuse To BreaK Up.

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Mackenzie answered Sunday August 22 2004, 7:12 am:
SWEET MOSES, ARe you seRious!??!! What the fuck is wRong with that little QueeRbait?!?! I say you bitch slap that MotheRfuckeR.. PRONTO!!! [And anotheR thing... how could you NOT know????]

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 3:57 am:
1 word to describe him {asshole}

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xxoBriannax answered Saturday August 21 2004, 10:47 pm:
Ugh!! What a jerk. Get people to kick his ass!!








-xXoBrianna

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Mammie answered Saturday August 21 2004, 10:23 pm:
GET HIM bACK!! REVENGE IS SWEEEET!

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EmbracedxRain answered Saturday August 21 2004, 9:40 pm:
I seriously dout after being with someone for four years they would have been playing you the whole time, thats ridiculous. He prolly just said that to deny he had feelings for you. Fuck him -not literally-- and find someone else. Hope it helps. *amber*

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LuCiouzbabii answered Saturday August 21 2004, 9:36 pm:
well thats fucken up ... 4 fucken years ... dont listen ta him he hadda have sum feelings for u after four years thats bullshit.. wutta asshole.. hes prolee one of them guys that like jusz use girl s

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mysticpixie05 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 9:31 pm:
thats crazy. but i mean think about it... four years is a long time to be with some one just for it to be a bet. it possibly could of been at first but not for all four years. he probably just wanted to have an excuse to break up with you and thats what he made up. and if it was all just a 4 yr. bet (highly doubtful, tho) then he doesnt deserve you or any one else for that matter and i wouldnt even waste my time talking to him at all anymore. hope that helps some.

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x0JacKie0x answered Saturday August 21 2004, 9:22 pm:
Hmm, that's kind of stupid, but maybe, if you haven't already, talk to him some more to see if your thoughts are certain. I know talking to him will probably be very hard, though, just try it to see if you can find more information, if you haven't already. Good Luck! ~Jackie

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ZeStY answered Saturday August 21 2004, 9:15 pm:
no one could stay with someone for four years and it jsut be a bet. i think hes jsut weak and needed a reason to end things, what a jerk

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SouthernBarbieGirl answered Saturday August 21 2004, 9:14 pm:
Yeah thats b/s but its life! U kinda gotta roll w/the punches, but if ur looking for a great way to get back at him, here is what I did when my bf did that to me: I wrote him a letter and when he got it, he thought I was just gonna beg him to go back out w/ me, but that wasnt the case. But being the idiot he was he showed it to all his friends before he read it and when they laughed at him he couldn't figure out what was going on. Then he read it. It said:

Jimmy,
I heard all the s*it you been saying and me and I think its kinda funny. But before you tell your boys anymore about me and how you played me, I think u should know something. The whole time we were going out YOU were getting played! I mean come on, do u really think I would mess with someone like YOU??? Get real! So you think u played me like a b*tch...well I gotta know just one thing, WHOS THE BI*CH NOW!?!?!?

It didn't say exactlly that, it was a lil more catchy but it embarrased him so bad and it gave me the upper hand! Yeah, it still hurt, but I didn't show it! If you dont feel like being mean, then dont! Just blow him off and be glad to be single again! Good luck and tell me how it works out!

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llgngstachic answered Saturday August 21 2004, 8:55 pm:
what are you? stupid? how could you not tell that he was playing with you? yeah i can be a ditz but i can tell when someones playing me, like seriously.

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tink17 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 8:44 pm:
It soundz to me like this guy is a total asshole. He took four years of your life and all. I say he doesnt deserve anyone!!!

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TucanFullOfHoles answered Saturday August 21 2004, 8:13 pm:
tell everyone. that way, no one will ever want to date him ever again. make it a point to say how hurt you were. punish him. make him pay.

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texangirl01 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 8:07 pm:
thats not nice!!!

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BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 8:05 pm:
OMG! I'm so sorry!! I don't think that he would play a bet for 4 years! Thats just alittle odd right there. There's no way! I think it might of been an excuse of just how to break up with you. Guys are dumb sometimes when it comes to breaking up with you. They don't always think. I mean if you think about it, 4 years of playing you? He wasted 4 years then. I mean come on, thats dumb, if it was a bet on how long he could play you, he would of only done it for a couple of months, not years! But, you deserve a WAY better guy than that. You just need to move on and get yourself out there and get a guy that will treat you right. Just go out and have fun and meet new guys and don't be shy. Go to parties, or the mall, or something. I hope this works and good luck hun, I'm so sorry! If you need anything else, just post a message in my inbox.

xoxo Kourtney

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punk4lyfe answered Saturday August 21 2004, 8:02 pm:
tell ur sooooo called "boyfriend" that he if a fucking asshole and then trash his house.... first ask him how much money he won the more money the more vandilism

ooo yea srrrrry that he was an ass

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sexybabiiJ answered Saturday August 21 2004, 7:55 pm:
it is just an excuse of why he is breaking up with you, he is so bullshitting you

IM me on sexybabiiJ

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brittishbaby answered Saturday August 21 2004, 7:44 pm:
he is an a$$ hole.
any questions ask me or (aol)IM me on,
JustASweetkiss76

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Karen answered Saturday August 21 2004, 7:44 pm:
Omg, you put up with 4 years of dating with an ass? You definitely need to fuck it and move on and find someone better who won't play you. Hope I helped :)

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xlostangelx answered Saturday August 21 2004, 7:42 pm:
omg sweety im soo sorry to hear that !! :( i think yu shuld jus say f*ck it and move on sweety!! go for sumthin better than that!! forget about him and dont talk to him no more!! dont even give him a chance to talk to yu!!!!

lOvE alwAyz, aSh*

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HollyAnn2282 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 7:40 pm:
omg i am so sorry! So many guys are assholes out there! Seriously... its hard to find a good decent guy these days! I am so sorry about that. I hope everything gets better and you find someone good and not a damn asshole!

Also maybe he just made that up because his feelings are hurt or something. Because that'd be really hard to stay with someone that you dont truely like for 4 years. Guys are dumb.
-holly-
hope i helped

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HIMlovemetal325 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 7:32 pm:
4 years! omgsh ur kidding right!? Wow, what an a$$. Forget him then, you deserve better than that.
- LIVEY

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crzyblonde708 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 7:06 pm:
how did you not know after the first week?

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