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I don't know what to do.....
I met this guy, this AWESOME guy... I used to be one of those, daring girls, i would have turned really slutty and a rebel..huge if i didn't find this guy, this guy is a strong christian, he turned me around and got me help through God, he took me to church and everything and showed me how strong God is and how much I need him. He didn't like me after awhile. And that was my first love. im 14, who can feel love at this age, i know sounds stupid as ever. But this guy, had the greatest impact on my life, we're best friends, and he does this to every girl, just leaves everyone for a new one. Hes really good looking, and a really good kid. It's just, he was everything that I wanted. I've told him I loved him, he doesn't understand. I'd die for that kid.. Well, I almost did once, actually. He means everything to me. But recently we got into a fight that lasted for a month, that was the worst time in my life, it was the loneliest, coldest month of summer in my life. He forgave me, and we're okay now, but we're not as close. I want to be close, I told him I miss him.. But.. I'm still heartbroken and I still love him and I want to be here for him, even if it is just his best friend. But we aren't that close anymore, and I want to be that "best girl" in his life, the one who was there to wipe his tears and to hold him close when all was wrong. PLease help me..Just tell me what's going on... Please...
babii balla
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awwww, that is sooo sweet! i dunno!
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just do wat u did here. open up to him. if u start trying to be close friends again maybe he will to if he knows that u trust him. be there 4 him. i hope i helped and i hope it works out.
~Reenie~
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I know you already told him how you feel, but I think you need to have another talking with him. But, I'll try to help you out though. Just tell him something like "You really changed me into a better person, you got me going to church and me stopping all my rebel ways. I love you for that. I told you once before on how I felt about you, and you just brushed me off your shoulder like I didn't say anything. And we aren't even the best of friends that we were, we even got in a fight that lasted a month, the whole time we weren't talking, was the loneliest time of my life. I missed you so much! You have no idea... and even if you dont have the same feelings as I do for you, then can we atleast be close friends again? Because I would really love that. I'm pouring my heart out to you right now and I just want to be friends if you don't want a relationship with me..." Just say something like that and just how you feel about this whole relationship. I hope this helps and works. Good luck hun. If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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(ok everyone else must not of read this through becuz EVERYONE!! she tried telling him how she feels!)
What you need to do is, just tell him what you wrote here. tell him everything. and maybe he'll change and want u to be his gurl. hope i helped. ask me something, its wut im here for lol. or IM me on JustASweetKiss76
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ok, i've been there before (minus the religon part) with someone i thought was the most amazing man on earth, and i never wanted to be away from him. maybe i'm not the one who should tell you this, because, well i'd be a hipocrit, but at that risk, you should tell him he means everything to you. you say you use to be a rebel, well break free for a secound and take a dare by telling him you love him. just because i don't have the guts to do it doesn't mean that you shouldn't.
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you should tell him how yu feel..therez no other way around it..cuz if yu dont, itll just get worse and yull drift even more..having a best friend means you can tell them yur feelings without them judging yu and yu can open up to them with anything. so, tell him how yu feel. it'll feel good to get it off yur chest and yu can at least say yu tried after that..who knoz see wut happenz!!
lOvE aShlEa.
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If you love him that much, tell him. It's the only way. You shouldn't be afraid to express yourself. Spend more time with him. Talk to him on the phone. But most importantly, make sure he knows that you love him. If you would die for him, tell him. If you think he's the best kid ever, tell him. If you love him, tell him.
Good Luck! ~Jackie
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