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well im only 14 and my mom was the best but latley shes changed. last july her best friend/cousion died. and its been really hard on her as we can all imagine. its just that eevr since then shes changed completly i used to yell at her to get things going again but she wasnt listing . untill one night she said she had a dream about dee( her best friend) came down from a shining light and told her stop crying and be happy shes happy well after that shes changed but were still not back to normal our house is messy more its never cleaned and another thing she kinda took up drinking to solve her problems ... she always drank in the past but only on weekends or special occasions but and rarley ever got drunk . but now after she comes home from work she has to have a drink wheather its one or six. all the time on weekends shes always out and when i metion it she think im jealouse because she doesnt spend as much time with me as usally but thats not it . i cry very often from this and it hurts to kno i dont have the best mom in the world any more and i cant handle it my life is always going down hill from getting in fights with my family to school to love its all piling up at once and i cant hadle it
i dont know what to do
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It sounds like you and your mom used to have a really good relationship. First of all I'm really sorry what your going through.
What you should do is to talk to your mom about this. You need to let her know that you love her and want her to stop drinking and to settle it. It will also probably take some time for your mom to recover. I remember when my Grandpa died and how my dad felt for a couple of months. It's been almost a year since he died. So it'll just take about a couple of months for your mom to calm down and move on. Most importantly, you need to spend more time with her, talk with her, and tell her that drinking won't solve any of her problems.
Psalm 46:1
God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.
Psalm 46:5
God is within her, she will not fall; God will help her at break of day.
Good Luck! ~Jackie
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