i rly like my boyfriend but when he asks me to do sumtin gi dont really want to bt i rly rly like him so... idk i think its becuz im shy around him and dont tak much but i want to be able to talk more around him and not be shy anymore.
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 3:29 am: WOW! DAY-JA-VOO!! i had that prob. between me n nathan i just hung out w/him more often and talked to him more often and became more open towards him.. just try that like hang out more often and have a closer relationship [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
Ryan answered Sunday August 22 2004, 3:24 am: you need to relax. Get comfortable around him. Stop trying to think so much and go with the flow [ Ryan's advice column | Ask Ryan A Question ]
xlostangelx answered Sunday August 22 2004, 3:18 am: just open up!! i mean if hez your boyfriend then you should be able to feel comfortable around him!! just tell yurself that this guy culd really be someone yu can learn to love, so take every chance yu get to open up and talk!! therez no other way for him to really get to kno yu if yu dont talk more:) it'll be okay, i kno yu mite be nervous and shy, but it'll all be better for yu in the end if yu open up and talk more!!
and for the part where yu rote he askz yu to do thingz yu really dont wana do..then dont do it!! dont let anyone walk all over yu!! or take advantage of yu!! ..jus simply say "no i really dont feel comfortable for that yet.."(if itz a sexual thing) ..or if he askz yu to lyk get a drink for him er sumin lol and yu dont wana..jus say "i dont feel lyk gettin up im sorry .." but say it in a nice way..
Leigh answered Sunday August 22 2004, 1:16 am: WEll if he is ever making you feel uncomfortable or he's askin you to do something you don't want to do don't give in and do it. Tell him how you feel and talk about it. It doesn't matter if you really like this guy if he is asking you to do inapropraite things you don't want to do don't do them.
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