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Mean GIRLS


Question Posted Thursday June 16 2005, 10:22 pm

Hi im 14 and a female, see there are these really mean group of girls at my school and they ised to be all my really good friends until 8th grade they started acting ;ike they were rea;;y cool and stopped talking to me. i asked them what was wrong and the act like everything is just fine. Then they went behind my back a nd told everybody some rumor about that wasnt true. My mom says there just jealous of me. Is there something wrong with me? What should I do?

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karenR answered Saturday June 18 2005, 8:00 am:
I don't think there is anything wrong with you at all. I think your mom is probably right. If they are going to continue to treat you badly then forget them all together and find some new friends to hang out with. Some of them may even change there minds and start treating you right when they realize you aren't going to put up with their nonsense anymore. :)

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Ask_Anything answered Friday June 17 2005, 10:37 pm:
oh, there are girls like these all over the world. ive witnessed so many cases of mean, absolutely horendous girls. i lost many of my friends in elementary school because of girls with no respect. people who are once your friend, can change dramatically in no time. girls like that are no fun to get involved with, and my best advice is to just steer clear from them and make some worthy friends. once you're enjoying life with people you are comfortable with, they'll regret ever letting you go. you dont need them, i promise. the only cool kids in school are the ones that are truly happy with themselves and the people that make them smile. that is pure cool. so dont worry too much about them, and eventually things will all find a way. they did for me, and im sure they will for you too

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XoXoiLoVeMeXoXo answered Friday June 17 2005, 8:34 pm:
if i were you i wouldnt talk to them any more they seem really mean and oh yea it happened to me......or you can just talk to them...who knows maybe you will become friends again.....good-luck
rate me...

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lyDia_LoU answered Friday June 17 2005, 6:41 pm:
Aw nothing's wrong with you!! Just ditch them and find some girls that are really going to be your friends.

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xHC0Barbi3x answered Friday June 17 2005, 3:01 am:
♥ theres nothing wrong with you at ALL. they are not wortth being your friend if they act like that. Your mom is probobly right they are jelous of you and they are insecure and taking it out on people who are confident or they feel intimedate them. Just keep being yourself and ignore what they say. Good luck babe. xoxo ♥ Lauren

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DorkyKerBear answered Friday June 17 2005, 2:44 am:
Sweetie, there is nothing wrong with you. It is all them. They are what's wrong. They aren't your real friends if they go behind your back like that. I say, just move on. Get some new friends, better friends. Make some friends that will love you for you, and not be ashamed of it. If you stay friends with these people, you are only leading up to heartbreak, and you don't want that to happen, do you?

Hope I helped some.

Love always,
Kerry

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Look2Linh answered Friday June 17 2005, 2:36 am:
hun, there is nothing wrong with you. they just THINK that they are better than you. they're growing and getting hormones. thinking they're beautiful, but the honest to god truth is, your mother is right. they are jealous. they have nothing better to do in their pointless lives than to put down people. they think their superior to you. the reason they talk about you is to make the school think you're a bad girl so they seem normal. they say all that garbage because THEY are insecure and the only way to feel better is to put you down. forget those girls. you can do so much better than them and you deserved someone worthy of your friendship. good luck with everything.

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wet_as_water answered Thursday June 16 2005, 11:22 pm:
SWEETIE well forget about them their bitches. exscuse my french. but serioulsy even if their jealous or not they dont deserve anything from you. if you want you can fight them but that might not be your style. there is nothing wrong with you. people change sadly it can be for the worse. dont change who you are to fit in with them. your perfect keep your conscious okay they can make up rumors but they can't change you dont give them what they want.they are just threaten by you okay SWEETIE?! i hope i helped
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LETSGO answered Thursday June 16 2005, 10:47 pm:
leave them alone. if they dont want to be nice to you leave them alone one day they're gonna be like "hey girlll!" just forget about them. you can get better friends than that. WAY better friends.

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