I like two guys who are really awesome. I haven't been too close to either one of them yet, but I still don't want to like two guys in case on of them asks me out. I'll call the two guys Ben and Caleb. Ben has always been really nice to me and teases me playfully. Caleb sometimes has been mean to me but never teases me at all. Ben has actually talked to me and he's really cute, while Caleb has ignored me when his friends were around but has smiled at me when no one was looking. I want to give Caleb a chance because he might be nicer if he knows I like him, and Ben already knows I like him and has always been sweet. Any suggestions?
Mackenzie answered Monday May 2 2005, 7:03 am: Suggestions? Yeah... Ben. Ditch Caleb. You'Re not even dating Caleb yet and *ALREADY* he's acting like you don't exist when he's with his fRiends - bad sign theRe... Best wishes to you; go get 'em, TigeR! =D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
mapetiteodette answered Sunday May 1 2005, 1:52 pm: If you really can't decide whether you like Caleb or Ben better, just don't ask either one out for a little bit. Get to know both of them a lot better. If Caleb, no matter how nice you are to him, still treats you meanly sometimes, then he's not worth it. Ben seems like a really nice guy, and if Caleb ends up not being nice to you, he seems like a great person. I had a crush on this boy in my grade for a long time, until I realized that when he was teasing me he wasn't being playful, he was being mean. I at the same time had a crush on another guy who was a lot nicer to me, and if I had the courage to ask him out I would have, and I should have. Don't be like me; find the courage to ask one of them out.
Good luck! [ mapetiteodette's advice column | Ask mapetiteodette A Question ]
hollisterhun221 answered Sunday May 1 2005, 1:32 pm: Well Ben seems like a much better choice if he talks to you and is sweet. Caleb isn't the greatest guy if he won't talk to you in fronmt of friends. If you go out with Caleb most likely you won't like him as much as you thought.. [ hollisterhun221's advice column | Ask hollisterhun221 A Question ]
karenR answered Sunday May 1 2005, 12:54 pm: Ben. He sounds good to me. I like a guy who can tease playfully. Caleb is probably nice too but maybe a little serious. Plus he ignores you when friends are around, that isn't real polite. But, the best solution will probably be to go out with whichever one asks first. You don't have to be an item to go out once. If you don't enjoy yourself just don't go again and ask the other one. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
AdInA answered Sunday May 1 2005, 12:46 pm: i say you go for ben, because it seems like you have a better chance with him, since he already knows you like him! caleb on the other hand, i don't think you should go for. if he has ignores you around his friends, that is not a good sign. just find out how ben feels about you, and if he doesn't feel anything for you, then you can go to caleb. just do what your heart tells you to, cause no one else can give you a real answer for this problem. [ AdInA's advice column | Ask AdInA A Question ]
darkblair771 answered Sunday May 1 2005, 12:38 pm: caleb doesn't seem like a guy you should like or whatever. if you were his girlfriend he might only be able to talk to you when no one was looking. he would act suspicous when you were with him and that's not right. also if his friends saw you with him and said something then he might break up with you. go for ben he's nicer hope i helped and hope things go well. [ darkblair771's advice column | Ask darkblair771 A Question ]
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