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Yesterday was my birthday, and i went over my boyfriend's house. He gave me a card and a braclet that i loved. Everything was going great until we started to get into a little fight about something stupid. I didn't know he would get so upset over it. He acted like everything was fine for the rest of the night. He told me that since i wasn't leaving for a while, he was going to pretend that everything was fine. We've been going out for almost 5 months now, and we broke up a few times during that. We get into the stupidest fights, say mean things to eachother, then come running back to eachother eventually. I hate breaking up, and i always get to upset over it. But i love when we get back together. I really love him more than basically anything. We both go threw stages of breaking up. I know all of his stages, he gets mad then breaks up with me, and then later on he calls acting like a moron saying all of these hateful words and things he doesn't mean. Pretending that he doesn't like me anymore. But then either a few hours, or days later, he calls me and says that he loves me and that hes sorry and stuff like that. Then we tell eachother nice things, and he wants to go back out with me. Right now, i am really upset over this and i was crying alot before. I talk to my mom about everything, she helps me through it all. But sometimes i just like to talk to people and get their advice. I hope everything works out. But i get so attatched to certain people. And it's so hard for me to get over them. So whoever is reading this, please help me with what i should do. Thank you so much.
Brooke
AGE - 15
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Here is what you should do.
Realise that you'll break up again and again.
You're not meant for him and vise versa.
Dump him, you have no chance with him in the future, your stuipd fights will continue, and it'll all be a sucky relationship.
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I must tell you that this can't keep on like this you too should be able to not say anything on something that you don't like so you don't whine up arguing because that is just a pain.But the good thing about is that you too are able to forgive each other have a talk with him that you don't want to argue with him because you feel that you,him are drifting apart,that you don't want to lose him,and seek therapy for you too if necessary.
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i personally think you should move on to a guy who will ALWAYS treat you right. you need to find yourself a MAN not a BOY who calls you names and says mean thinks to you. you need a guy who will treat you like a princess and treats you like your the most important thing in the world to him. a guy who will always be there to make you laugh at your worse and to always have your back.as hard as it will be you need a new boyfriend. there are A LOT of guys out there. you just have to find the right one. i hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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well brooke, he obvious loves you but doesn't belive that he reallly does. you guys might need a break. you guys probably don't brooke but remember i am her for you i love youu !! and he loves you so much. and he is coming back because he can't get enough of you !!
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You are a caring and loving person who is willing to give people many chances. I commend you on that.
When your boyfriend stated that he would pretend that everything was fine since you weren't leaving for a while, was he trying to say that he didn't want you there?
Also, it could be possible that he breaks up with you, sees someone else, then runs back to you when that relationship is over. I have known some men who have done that. They didn't like not having a girlfriend, even if it meant being with someone they didn't have an interest in.
I think you should move along because I think he is playing with your emotions. Ultimately, it is up to you. I wish you good luck with whatever decision you make.
Ms Ask Me
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Aww. Ok, my opinion, is that he is a bit immature if he calls and says stuff like that. Why would you want to go out with someone that you get into stupid fights with all the time. Breaking up a lot of times isnt good in a relationship. And yes, you probably do love him, but in my opinion the way you described your relationship with him, that you would be better off as friends. It will be hard to get over someone who you had good times with, but there are other fish in the sea.Take a long brake, like, more then a week, i suggest about 4 months, you know, meet new people, and then if you still cant stand to be without him, then talk to him and tell him you dont want to fight anymore and that you like it when you are happy together. Go on some dates with different guys if you decide to brake up with your boyfriend. Good Luck!
~Brina
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The best thing i can tell you is instead of arguing and saying all these bad thing to each other go to him and say hey lets talk this over instead of pitching a fit and raging. tell each other what you think they did wrong and listen to them and then go from there.
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