Member Since: January 21, 2007
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Last Update: January 21, 2007
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17/M
This is gonna sound really wierd, but my girlfriend of four years, has arranged for one of our mutual friends, a cute girl our age, to have a threesome this thursday...i dont know what i want to do... i mean, this IS kinda every guys fantasy, but i dont know if its RIGHT...you know? should i go ahead with it? i know my girlfriends not bi, and that shes probably doing it for me, but she seems so enthusiastic about it, and so does the other girl...and even if i go ahead with it, if the other girl is doing stuff to me, is it okay to show that i like it? would that make my girlfriend jealous? im just looking to try and enjoy this (i do WANT to do it) and not offend anybody i can...i love my girlfriend with all my heart, and shes the light of my life, i dont want to hurt her...ANYTHING you have to say will be helpfull...thanks...by the way im looking for girls opinions too... (link)
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Just about any girl would get jealous. What I think you should do is to sit down and talk with her. Make up a compromise. You want to be loyal to her, but you want to like her idea as well. Tell her that you don't mind watching her with another girl at all [unless of course you do mind], but that because of your love for her, you want to be faithful to her and not do anything with the other girl. There are ways it can work out, such as your girlfriend doing stuff with you while the other girl does things with your girlfriend, ect. You'll figure out something.
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15/m
I swear im depressed, i cry alot like everynight, i feel like shit and want to die sometimes...
okay well i was fine until i met sammie, then we were goin out and i really loved her and then we broke up and all and i got crushed, ever since i have no been the same... like now 2 months later(this past sat) she tells me she likes me alot but doesnt want a bf right now, and like now im crying harder cuz now tomorrow is my birthday and i want to hang out with her so so so so bad on sat. and for like the past two days after she told me how she felt she been ignoring me and when i call her she says shes in a bad mood and doesnt wanna talk to me... well i asked her to hang out with me on sat. and she said oh idk i might hangout with chris(her best friend but i thikn more) i swear if i lose her im killing myself, i know ill do it, shes everything to me... i cant lose her... (link)
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I've felt like this before, and before we get into the details, if it ever does get to the part where you're about to kill yourself [It's come to that for me before because of a guy], just sit and think for a second. I'm not going to tell you to think about all the people that love you and care about you ect. Because at the time you won't care about them. Just think about Sammie. Did you really have an amazing time loving her? If you do kill yourself, you won't get another chance to be that happy again. If you stay alive there's still a chance both of you can be together. And I know it hurts, but if she means that much to you, then you should be willing to go through the hurt until life gets better. It might take a while, and it might seem impossible, but things eventually will work out. And they'll get screwed up again, and you'll feel like dying, and they'll get fixed again. You won't loose her, I can tell you that.
What you need to do is sit down by yourself in your room and think, cry if you need to, and just think. Then go and talk to her. Try not to cry while you're telling her how you feel, because it'll make you seem too needy, whether you are or not. Just speak your feelings, and be true. Don't just tell her what you think she'll like to get her back. tell her what you actually feel about her, and that you'd never want to loose her. See how she responds. You seem like a really nice and caring guy. I'll cross my fingers for you.
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okay,here is the scenario
i met this gal on the net,so what happens is that it is a chatroom,right,and we chat and soon find that we share the same interest and all that.we did not have cyber sex and it was just pure talk,later she sent me her photo and her msn.we soon had a great chat,but she has never seen me before.she then confessed her feelings to me on one night so here's my question:
1)does it count as love when a gal says she loves you when she has never seen you before,but loves your personality,chatting with you and everything else.
don't ask why i did not sent her my pic yet,i'm working on it,but i just wanna ask if it counts as love or not till this point where she doesn't know how i look like but likes my personality and other stuff. (link)
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I think it most certainly counts as love. I met my boyfriend online, and after a few months of talking I blurted out that I loved him. I'd never seen a picture of him or anything.
However, depending on whether she's one of the girls that says she "loves" a guy just because she thinks hes hot/likes his personality/likes him alot, but not love and then goes out with him for a few weeks, gets tired, and they break up. I don't know her, but you do, and if she's that kind of girl, then I wouldn't count on a major relationship - people can change, though. But she might also actually mean it. You should talk to her about it, or just listen [girls really love it when they talk about their relationship] and I'm sure it'll all work out in the end. Good luck.
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