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there's this boy me and my friend both like *ted.
he doesn't know we don't like him but we KNOW he don't like us anyway....he like hates us. well anyway, we found a pictures of this girl on the internet (average girl) and made a myspace for her(we named her brooke)...anyway they also started talking on AIM on (brookes) personal s/n that we made her. well he trusts brooke enough to tell her anything (he also says he loves her)....his problems like gangs....drugs vilolence, and about his dad.
his dad was diagnosed with sercousis od the liver. his dad this week was put in hospital at chapal hill (which isn't good) now...yesterday they have him on a breahthing machine. with chrsitmas right around the corner i would hate to see him die...him and *ted are vey close. we want to tell who brooke really is but we think it will be too hard on him with all this other stuff going on. i haven't slept in days...im so worried about him. what do we do?

you should definately tell him the truth!! but have a long talk with him about it. don't just be like "we were brooke"... he'll be mad. also, tell him you are sorry and know it is wrong and that you are there to help/talk to him. something like that. no matter how you do it, just tell the truth!! don't dig yourself deeper. or, you could stop talking to him as brooke slowly and then tell him so he still isn't "in love" with her. oh, he probably doesn't hate yoU!!
i really hope i helped!

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i never know what to talk about with guys either on the phone or in person. anyone have some simple ideas. this sounds dumb i know but i could really use the help. thanks

talk about movies that are coming out. you could talk for hours about a movie you both want to see or one of you has seen and maybe you'll end up going together.
talk about music. it doesn't matter if he's into punk and your a pop princess, other way around, whatever =D... you can experiment in a guy's music. maybe you'll like it. and it's a great topic.
also, ask him about places he's been, thing's he's done. things like that
and about what he'd like to do/ accomplish.
hope I helped.

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HI! I'm Sharpay in High School Musical. I was wondering what kind of style sharpay has. Lik what stores she'd shop at!
DONT TELL ME TO WATCH THE MOVIE.
I have been but 'm still needing hlerp
THanks!

Sharpay has a very unique style. I read that in the HSM movie, Ashley Tisdale got most of her clothes at thrift stores. But don't make it too old fashioned!
SHarpay really loves standing out and is dramatic, so go for color and sparkle and pizzazz. hope i helped

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im 13/f. i really like this guy and its been on and off. i havent told any of my freinds because i know theres no chance that he'll ever liek me or ask me out. he stopped tallking to me for a while but ehe recently started to talk. whenever hes around the only thing that i can say is "soooo wats up???". he flirts with pretty much every girl and he used to date a freind. what should i do to get him to like me???? what should i say around him???

I'm guessing this guy is the type who is a joker. very outgoing and flirtacious. so u have to be the same back. if hes joking around, joke around with him! also, find things you have in common and TALK about them!
hope i helped
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thanks!

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There is this boy at school, lets call him Joe(his name really isn't Joe), that i really really like! But i dont even think Joe knows my name! How do I get him to notice me? Also to make the problem worse he likes my best friend Karlee. And i know he does cause he told her. I am really shy and dont want to go up there and tell him i like him because i am afraid he will think i am a dork! To top it off all of my friends think i am childish because i have only had 1 boyfriend! Ohh and if this helps i am 13/f. Please HELP!!!!!!!!

first off, you are so not childish fer having only one bf! gosh! lol. seriously, though, you should find out his screenname or something because it would be easier to talk to him online. Or if he shares any of your classes, ask him for homework or help with SOMETHING! Or if you know one of his friends, you could ask him/her to mention you to "joe".
Confront your friend, Karlee. And ask her to tell him that she doesn't like him so he will give up on her and be ready for you.
Hope SOME of this helped.
let me know and do rate!

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OK so there is this girl in my class. I try to talk to her but shes so quiet and doesnt say much. I like her a little but i dont know what to do since she doesnt really talk to me. I also have another problem. I have a girlfriend...I mean i like her (i guess) and shes cool and all but we just dont...click like we used to. We talked alot more when we were friend. But not that we r together, its like i dont wanna talk to her so she will break up with me. What should i do??

Ok, first of all you should seriously talk to your girlfriend. Say something like "I still really like you but just as a friend." And you should seriously commit to staying friends with her. Invite her places as a friend. Make her feel like you still want to be friends.
As for the other girl, I wouldn't go for her right after you break up with your present girlfriend. But flirt with her a little. And talk to her. Get to know her. You have to put the effort in!! When you feel ready, ask her to the movies or the park or wherever. I hope it works out!

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Ok, so theres this guy whom i am so inlove with and have been for almost a year, of course hes known all this time and he still treats me like a reeli gd mate and stuff...but now all my friends are starting to like him to cos hes just such a nice guy and hes so funny...hes realy attractive but thats not why i feel for him. im going to see him at the weekend to go to the cinema but my friends are also going to be there. the ones that have started to like him as much as i do, over the past year hes had girlfriends it killed me inside but ive never felt as bad as this, now that everyone im close to likes him...i just want him to like me. he sed he liked emos, so i went emo for a few weeks. he didnt care much and my friends got realy worried about me changing myself for him so they made me stop. i was just wondering if u had some advice to find out if he liked me even the slitest bit? or if u knew how i could make him like me. x

first off, you should never change yourself for a guy. really, you gotta be your own person. i dont think he should be like "i like emos" because im sure he doesn't like every emo in the world and he may like, say, a jock or a girly person. if you like him that much, sit next to him at the cinema and get your flirt on. don't overwhelm him though. you should really tell him how you feel, too. if he feels the same about you, than ask him out just the two of you. let me know what happens.

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I sent a sorry message to a boy today
he hasnt read it yet but im so scared.
I dont know if hes going to write back or not.
and no , i cant talk to him in person , becuase he wont look at me or he'll be with his girlfriend.
I didnt do anything that bad, but i know he hates me and we used to be friends.
And normally id let it go, but i like ,love him.
My question is, do you think he will respond?
And do you think its going to be nice or mean?
thanks

you really never know.
im sure if you guys are good frends he will forgiv you for whatever it is that you did.
im pretty sure he'll be nice about it, but if not, prepare yourself, and DO NOT be defensive and get into a bigger fight. i hope you guys make up.

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13/f

k well theres this guy that likes me. the thing is that i dont know if i like him or not. one day ill be like in love with him and the next ill be like ew gross. i dont know why im acting like this. what do i do?

I know I say this a lot, but it is so true, you HAVE to get to know the guy before you judge him. if he asks you out, go on one date with the guy. what's the worst that will happen:: you don't like him at all. that's it. see what happens.

Hope I helped =D

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okay yeah well there is this guy that i pranked a couple of times...like really bad they weren't at school they just were like little inside things exept one was like really big and now the problem is i really like him...i think he knows i do but how do i find out what he thinks of me since what i did to him?

you should apologize first of all. tell him that you never meant any of the pranks. then get to know him a little more. once you do, you'll be able to talk and if he doesn't want to take your relationship to the next level, it's not all bad. you two could end up being friends. if he feels the same way after you apologize, YAY! score for you.
btw: notes work too, if you don't want to directly confront him. hope i helped

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14/f. i like my guy best friend. he's so awesome and i feel like we can have a really good relationship, but i don't know if he likes me. plus, there's this other girl he's friends with, and during a field trip we had friday, they were together the whole time. they're not going out, but it really made me SOO JEALOUS. and i don't like feeling jealous, but what can i do?! there's times that i feel like asking him out to make sure he's mine and cuz i've been waiting for so long. i really really do like him. the people who knows that i like him told me to just tell him, but i'm scared as hell. this is not like the other boys that i've liked, cuz i wasn't such great friends with them, and i don't wanna ruin our friendship. so what should i do?

I liked my guy best frend a few years ago and hes been obsessed with this girl since forever. So I tried to stop liking him and told myself its not worth it and now i wonder "what if..."
I dont think you should leave yourself wondering. but if u think the frendship is too close to jeopardize, dont go for it!! maybe ur better off as frends
then agen, maybe not. if you REALLY like him ASK HIM OUT!! if you are jealous of a girl he hangs out with, i think you really like him. flirt with him and hint A LITTLE that you like him. c what happens.
hoped i helped

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okay.


does anyone remember the show that was on tv .. probably early morning about 5 years ago. it was on TLC but it could have been on other channels.

it was a man who would draw a picture with a black marker first then color it in. it was kind of like a drawing entertainment show.

i would really like to know what this show was called!

SOMEBODY HELP! thank you.

pappyland.
Pappy, pappy drew it. he drew pappy land

i so remember that
was that it? hope so.
i was OBSESSED with it.
he always said "Like so"
hehe
kay hope it was pappyland =D

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i want to see my cousin but his mom wont let me. she says that i cant see him in cirtin areas because she does not trust me. and when i go over to her house i cant spend time with him anway bacouse i need to clean the house. but she wont pay me and she wont let me go anwere until everything is to her standereds. as if she was payibg me. what should i say to her?

2 words. . .
I QUIT
no, but seriously, i know you r related but i'd just get fed up. why cant you see your cousin? i dont understand. is your cousin younger, the same age, or older. OH WAIT I MIGHT HAVE GOTTEN IT. is it a baby. wow this is the worst advice ever but you shouldnt clean their house if they dont trust you, u kno? talk to one of your parents about it, too

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13/m
Hi, i really like this girl but i dont know if she likes me. idk if i shud try to ask her out and maybe get lucky or just wait. but the problem is that i cant wait, i love her to much and i dont think i can keep goin on without her knowing that i like her. So the main part of the question is "how could i tell that she likes me or not, or how shud i ask her out"

Thanx

Has this girl ever had a boyfriend? If not, I think you have better chances of her saying yes. That's only cuz iv nevr had a bf and id go out with anyone just to c if there is more. You should ask someone to find out who she likes, and it doesnt matter if the person you asked told because she'll be flattered.

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14/f

Well i'm in the 8th grade, and I dont have a best friend... is that bad??? I'm not saying that I am lonely and I have no friends, I have plenty of friends.. just none of them are actually my BEST friends. Arn't best friends supposed to be there for you when you're feeling low? and they always come and sleepover and you always share secrets with each other? welll it seems like whenever I go up to my other friends, they are always busy with 'their' other best friends. It's like they have no intrest in me anymore. My brother just moved away to college and my cousin is staying with us for a while. I have a dog, could that be my best friend? I just feel like I have a lot of depression going on in my life and I really need somebody to talk to. yes, i know.......... I can talk to you on advicenators, but I need somebody not only for talking... but to share my happy moments with, a best friend
and I know you'll say talk to your family.... but the thing is.. both of my parents are ALWAYS working... they leave the house way earlier than I do... and the next time I see them is when i'm asleep. Its just not fair. My brother is in college, and my cousin is always hanging out with his friends or finding some excuse not to be in the house. I'm really sad that I dont have a best friend, and I'm a very busy person.... could that be the reason why I dont have a best friend? cause i'm always busy and they never have any time with me????????
You might say join a school activity and meet friends there... but TRUST ME! I dont make friends easily, lets just say I get SUPER SUPER SUPER nervous when I meet new people, or give a speech to a class. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!! I FEEL SO ALONE.... I always see kids in the hallway, hanging out with their best friends, and I am really sad that I dont have a best friend there by me. WHAT SHOULD I DO????????????
OH AND IF YOU COULD: ANOTHER QUESTION= HOW DO I GET RID OF THE FEAR OF MEETING NEW PEOPLE AND GIVING OUT SPEECHES??????????????? THANKS SOOOOOOOOO MUCH... I KNOW THIS WAS LONG, BUT THANKS

I used to have that story (sort of) I moved to Ireland in third grade, and i had plenty of friends in america then, but wen i got back a year later, i had no friends. no best friend and no friend. there were some new students and i was the shyest girl evr. plus my parents were in the midst of a divorce so i could nevr do anything but go to skool and come home. but i made frends with this new grl and now we are bffs! my family drama cleared up and i hang out with her every othr weekend wen im not with my dad JOIN THEATRE IT HELPED ME BECOME LESS SHY! haha. no, seriously it did. i joined my skools drama club and now im in my local theatre and I learned that I can really sing. =)
you could deepen ur relationship with your already-friends, too. you hav to put the effort in.

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