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Invisible!
There is this boy at school, lets call him Joe(his name really isn't Joe), that i really really like! But i dont even think Joe knows my name! How do I get him to notice me? Also to make the problem worse he likes my best friend Karlee. And i know he does cause he told her. I am really shy and dont want to go up there and tell him i like him because i am afraid he will think i am a dork! To top it off all of my friends think i am childish because i have only had 1 boyfriend! Ohh and if this helps i am 13/f. Please HELP!!!!!!!!
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If it helps, i have my first boyfriend right now and I am 14. Its not a big deal that you have only had one boyfriend. Your friends are pretty inconsiderate to think that you are childish because of it. So about this Joe kid.. talk to him. Say hi. Start a conversation. Is he in any of your classes? Talk about a teacher you both have. Flirt and have fun and be yourself.
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Aaah i see, bopy issues eh? well.. and this is my opinion. The way i feel is that i really don't think you need a boyfriend. Ca'mon you're 13 that's a lil wa--y too young to concern yourself about guys hun. Besides if this guy likes your best friend so what? and on top of all that, that's a major RED FLAG on your part
Cause lets say you and him would hook up, then your bestfriend will become your EX-bestfriend, talk behind yourback and then make very nasty rumors about you. I've heard the type of stories before. Sorry, but i truely thnk this would be a bad move. Alou------gh you could play the waiting game ^^
with teens and relationships these days it's more like a 5-month commitment. wait till they break up and then wait a while, then talk to him lil by lil. that should get his attention. hope this helps and take care
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I think that you should get to know him first before you even consider telling him how you feel. Some people might disagree with me, but I think that it's easier to become friends with someone before going out with them. It lets you see if this guy really is worth your affection and effort.
Just start a conversation with him. It's very easy, actually! You can talk to him about a sport he plays, ask him about homework/classwork, compliment him, borrow a pencil from him... The possibilities are virtually endless. Try to avoid asking yes or no questions. If you do, make him explain. For instance:
You: Did the football team win the big game last night?
Him: No.
You: Oh, I heard that the quarterback got injured somehow! What happened to him?
See what I mean? You don't have to talk about football; That was just an example.
You could also get Karlee to help you. Maybe she can introduce you to him. I don't really recommend that, though, since his attention will probably be more focused on Karlee than you, since he likes her. So I really think that you should do it yourself, without her around, so he can be 100% focused on you.
Don't be afraid of being a dork. Having the confidence to go up to someone and introduce yourself IS NOT dorky by any means. If he thinks that you're dorky, he isn't worth your time anyway.
Having only one boyfriend at 13 is NOT childish. A lot of people don't get their first boyfriends until they are much, much older. Besides, quality before quantity. Think of it this way: Would you rather have had one amazing boyfriend, or a bunch of not-so-great ones?
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
-Manders
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first off, you are so not childish fer having only one bf! gosh! lol. seriously, though, you should find out his screenname or something because it would be easier to talk to him online. Or if he shares any of your classes, ask him for homework or help with SOMETHING! Or if you know one of his friends, you could ask him/her to mention you to "joe".
Confront your friend, Karlee. And ask her to tell him that she doesn't like him so he will give up on her and be ready for you.
Hope SOME of this helped.
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