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i want to see my cousin but his mom wont let me. she says that i cant see him in cirtin areas because she does not trust me. and when i go over to her house i cant spend time with him anway bacouse i need to clean the house. but she wont pay me and she wont let me go anwere until everything is to her standereds. as if she was payibg me. what should i say to her?
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Dear Restricted,
Yes, your mom might not trust you but it is family. That is what i don't understand. If he lives along with no adult supervision that's why she might be a little nervous. You might want to try the approach, "Mom, I know i have to do all of this stuff, and i wouldn't mind as much if you'd give me some money for the things i do."
make sure if she says yes to clean WELL
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2 words. . .
I QUIT
no, but seriously, i know you r related but i'd just get fed up. why cant you see your cousin? i dont understand. is your cousin younger, the same age, or older. OH WAIT I MIGHT HAVE GOTTEN IT. is it a baby. wow this is the worst advice ever but you shouldnt clean their house if they dont trust you, u kno? talk to one of your parents about it, too
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Just stop going to her house, if she's so self-centered tell her your not cleaning anything until you agree with eachother on a pay that you like and she agress with. And ask why she can't atleast let you see your cousin for atleast 5 minutes. I mean, why does she want to hide him from you? What doesn't she trust?
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If she doesn't trust you then don't go to her house at all. Let her hire a stranger to do her cleaning.
Your cousin will just have to come to your house and visit.
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