Hey It's Kati here. I love giving advice. I try my best with your problems. I try to relate them and make them easy to fix.
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JustJamiex3
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I don't know why I've suddenly thought of this, but here it goes. My dog, Lucky, is really old.. around 16 or 17. He's a small dog, and is doing well for his age, but he is really old and getting slow. It started occuring to all of us that he's going to die pretty soon, probably within a year. I don't know how I'm going to react when that happens, but as they say, that's life.
My question is, if any of you have had a dog die naturally, or by being put to sleep, who took care of the remains? I know it's a crazy question, but does the vet have someone take on that responsibility?
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yes, the vet will put your dog down. =(.
My dog actually died naturally. It was so sad becuase my mom had to pick her up and take her to the vet. It was tramatic. but Things happen for a reason. and i hope you are okay.
Stay Strong xoxo
-lxlaznshortylxl
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i want to see my cousin but his mom wont let me. she says that i cant see him in cirtin areas because she does not trust me. and when i go over to her house i cant spend time with him anway bacouse i need to clean the house. but she wont pay me and she wont let me go anwere until everything is to her standereds. as if she was payibg me. what should i say to her? (link)
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Dear Restricted,
Yes, your mom might not trust you but it is family. That is what i don't understand. If he lives along with no adult supervision that's why she might be a little nervous. You might want to try the approach, "Mom, I know i have to do all of this stuff, and i wouldn't mind as much if you'd give me some money for the things i do."
make sure if she says yes to clean WELL
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ok so i have this friend and she is really fun to hang out with but she lies way to much and i cant talk to her about it cause i know that will ruin our friendship see she lies about things no one should lie about like haveing a tomber i dont really know how to spell that but anyways she also lies about her being pregnantshe has said she was pregnant but it was a miscarriage then she said she was pregnant again but she was going to have an abortion and she is only 15 she has done alot of bad things in her life that i'm not gonna mention because i'm not gonna rat her out but she lies about everything and i cant take it anymore i dont know what to do so please help me???? i'm really confused (link)
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To Lies:
Okay, your friend is obviously a liar from what i've heard. It might be because she is looking for a little more attention. Maybe from you because her parents aren't or something along the lines of that. Anyways, you should talk to her. If she's your real friend, she will talk to you because friends talk things out. So,maybe next time if you don't want to confront her you should change the subject. If she says like "oh i'm pregnant or whatever " just be like oh. and just go so... (change the subject)
lxlaznshortylxl
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Tomorrow is the first day back at school. I compared my new schedule with my friends' schedules, and so far none of them have the same classes as me. What do I do if no one is in any of my classes? I get really nervous and paranoid when I don't know anyone. (link)
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Don't freak. Everyone has nervous days and feelings. Don't worry you should just wait to see. who knows maybe you'll find someone you know that you aren't that well aquainted with yet.
It could be a good thing.
Hope you have good classes/
-lxlaznshortylxl
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I have a small cat that is 5 years old (own since a kitten) that is starting to poop in my bathtub instead of the litterbox. Any thoughts why? (link)
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My thoughts are:
Is the litter box too small?
Is the litter box frequently cleaned (my cat started pooping out side of the box because it wasn't cleaned one day)
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I'm a 15 year old girl from Ks. Ok, so my mom is gone on business for 2 months, and I am left at home with my 3 lazy bros. My dad always tells ME to do everything. I'm always the one to clean, cook, do the laundry etc. Any advice on what to say WITHOUT sounding disrespectful? I need advice ASAP! (link)
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Dear "Maid for the family"
Maybe something along the lines of.. Dad can i have some help, it's alot more than i ususally do and i can't do it all by myself. please, can (brothers names) help I just feel bombarded.
hope i helped..
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yeah my little brother brandon is a little brat!i am 13 years old &&i have to watch him all the time!i don't even get an alowence!i know it sounds unfair but i mean we have been having money issues and my mom works alot and she can't afford to put him in daycare!i don't want to sound like a spoiled brat complaining, but my brother is so annoying!
please help!!A.S.A.P. (link)
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Ok "My brother is Annoying",
You know what i have an older brother and idk but he was the best babysitter in the world (well i thought)
Be sure to act different. Maybe like well i'm you're babysitter now and you're sister later. So he might get used to , oh shes the babysitter not my sister for now. I am not sure try doing fun things.. i know that always got me. Check up on him it might feel like you care for him..
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I have alot of friends but i never hear from them that much, on weekends i used to do everything with my friends but now i sit home on the weekends, and do nothing, it just feels like i have no friends but i do. and some of my friends freak out on me over a stupid question and it wasen't even that serious of a ? to freak out on me for. Please give some advice on what is should do, and I have like a rapid cycle of moods like i'm mad, then sad, then happy, but i always so angry but i never show it, i'm kinda really hyper in school, but every one likes me, so should i just calm down and just sit there and show all my anger cause i just can't take it anymore. please help!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Why not try to express youre anger in a different way.. I usually write a poem or a song maybe paint.. or ..just listen to music.. it just relazes me.. i think it helps me..
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so there's this boy i like and i don't know what to sya to him.. me and him are kind of friends and he's in my study hall so what should i say to him? (link)
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Okay Crusher,
Try getting to know him a little better. Just start off saying hi to him alot. If you find him saying hi to you alot as well that means he's noticing you a little more. Try getting into short conversations too.. Not complex. like hey what's up did u hear about.. and so on. just try that for awhile than just see how well of friends you are and how compatible you are.
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Alright, theres these two German Twins, they're what.. 5?? and they're as hyper as cam BE! I need answers like RIGHT QUICK, Because they're comming over to be babysatt in 10 minutes! they're hyper, they make messes, THAT I GET BLAMED FOR, they break stuff, once I even lost one of them, she was outside laying in the snow with only her clothes on! A t-shirt and shorts. So i need advice on how to control them! (link)
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Dear babysitter,
Try bringing things that won't make them want to run and be hyper but instead spend time with you.
Try doing something that they know you will only do with you and their parents won't do with them
Try to keep breakable things out of sight and maybe in a room that's off limits for them. Ahead of time tell them thast you have a fun night for them ahead. Girls usually like glitter and stickers Boys usually like trucks and action figures. Hope it helps ..
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I have a puppy. She pees on the floor constantly. I just got new white carpet. Does anyone know how to get the stains and smell out?
Also, she smells. I wash her like once or twice a week. She made the whole living room smell. Does anyone know how to get dog just smells out of the room. I mean I've tried everything.
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Try to take your puppy out every 10-15 minutes make sure you take her to the same spot or around there. She;ll eventually get used to going outside and not in. Also consider puppy training courses they do pay off..later on.
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i really really need to get over my best mates girlfreind they have been going out for nearlly 8 months now and it had taken me this long to love her she knows i like her her bf knows i like her hees kool with it and so's every 1 else the thing is .. i'm not kool with it i gotta get over her as i really just want be best freinds again with this girl because thats all it was up untill now i feel like i am tryin to break them apart because i keep thinkin horrible thoughts about WHEN they break up and WHEN we are going out and so on i dont want to love her please give me a little advice on how to get over her so i can go back to normall life with my freinds .thanks. (link)
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Hey we have all been there at least once or twice. If you are determined to not think of her don't hang around with her as much. Don't talk about her. Hang with other friends and just try to think that oh she's just a friend or oh she's not single.
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I think i'm ADD (not literally) i alwayss get distracted from my homework...i know thats normal b/c its boring, but how can i just pay attention and finish it b/c next thing i know its 11:00 and i still have to study and do other things (like right now haha)
pleasee help.
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Dear A D D,
Homework is definitley boring but try to work it into your schedule around the same time every day. You'll get into the habit of "oh it's time to do my homework" Make sure you aren't around distactions as well. try to find somewhere quiet. Or try studying with friends and helping eachother out. Not literally giving the answers to eachother but it seems easier when your with friends. Studying can be hard as well. Especially if it is a boring subject but just try reading over what you have again and again until you think you know it alright. Then take a small break Keywords SMALL. maybe like 5-10 minutes of having a snack or something.
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alright heres the background info..
theres this really hott guy at my school, Joe, and me and him are really good friends. well my friend jess went out with him last year and they broke up over the summer.
now the girl is completely obsesing over him! she never stops talking about him and shes always like OMG HES SO HOTT! its so f***ing annoying! i wanna slap her so bad! he doesnt like her anymore (i asked him) and she wont accept the fact that hes over her. she says she wants to get over him but she cant.
how can i help her try to get over him? shes really getting so annoying. i dont know how much more i can take! i mean i know the guy is drop-dead sexy but she doesnt need to say it every 5 seconds! please help me!! (link)
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Dear my friend is so obsessed,
Your friend is proabably still in shock that it it over. She will need a little time but to pass time hang with some of your other friends and maybe you'll make some new ones too. Or simply try saying can we change the subject
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