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I'm a 14/f and I dont have a best friend. I mean I have friends.... but they're not that close. Like a lot of people I know, are going to the mall with their best friends, and since i dont have a best friend, i'd only have a chance to go to the mall with my mom... ughh and I soo totally dont want to do that.
Well, my point is that in school, we have about 20 minutes before school to do anything we want. And well I am hanging out with my "friends" and they don't really include me... so if they're having a conversation, and I ask a question, they wont answer me and just ignore me. I always feel so alone. I know you might say "just have you're family be your best friends" but I REALLY dont want to have my family be my best friends. I want someone that's my age, and who I can have sleepovers with, and go to the mall with, and just hang out with... but none of my friends don't like me that much. It's like this world doesn't even know I exist.
So my question is How can I stand out to people and try to make friends? Is there any tricks to making a best friend? What should I do about these so called "friends"? Keep talking to them? Ignore them?
I mean, if I start talking to them, they'll just change their mood into like an annoying mood. Suuuure they'll talk to me, but its about something really stupid like "what was the homework assignment for monday?"
Sometimes, if one of my friends, doesn't have anyone to talk to at the time, they'll come to me and start talking to me, but it's not the talking you think it is... its probably more like bragging. Like one of them likes to dance, and if she doesn't have anybody to talk to, she'll come up to me and say "oh my gosh, I can't remember my tap dance sequence... Oh yeah it goes ____" and then she'll like dance infront of me, and like show off.
I don't know what's wrong with me, it's like i'm a back-up friend to everybody... I feel so alone and my subject said "what happens to a lonely person in life?" well... what happens? Will I turn out to be some person who doesn't have a purpose in life?
How can I fix this? I'm SOOOO CONFUSED!!!!!!!!
HELP ME! (link)
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Well. The trick is be yourself i bet you heard that millions of times but it does work. get alittle more involved in the coversations like relate to what they are saying. then when ever one uses you for a "back up friend" ask them to hang out one night. Or invie them all to a sleep over and fubd out secrets about them itll make you more of a best friend to them when thwey see you keep there secret.
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alright, well there's this guy i just met not too long ago and we've already hung out a few times, but it's all been with other people.
tonight me and him are going out to eat somewhere.
now he's picking me up and this is my question.. what is there to talk about? i need "car conversation" and then i need some things to talk about while we're eating and everything! i'm compltely clueless! (link)
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Car conversations are always harder when your nervous. So relax and ask him how is day was. And talk about things that you both enjoy. The conversation stays pure. If there happens to be any "akward silences" ask him what he's favorite music is and turn on the radio or ask him about that song.
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i like this guy, and i kno he likes me too, because well... he told me. but hes kinda shy and hes two years older than me, so we dont really talk alot. he gave me his phone number, and he has my number too, but idk if i should call him, would that seem too forward? hes kinda shy so i dont kno if hes gonna call me..so wat should i do? (link)
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Okay, you like him and he likes you right? So , if you call him it won't seem to forward. But, if you call him consantly and he's not into the convorsation he'll think your too clingy. But calling him first it will be perfectly fine. If he's not there just ask the person who anwsered to tell him to call you back or tell the anwsering machine. But dont call him again until youh see him and mention it to him.
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I have been going out with a boy and its been about a week. It seems like everyone I talk to knows that we are going out so then they ask "did you kiss yet" I want to say yes but the truth is no. So this weekend I am going to met him at the park near my house and try to get a first kiss but I am not sure if I am ready for it. Should I kiss him or wait? (link)
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Well, if your unsure that means that you arent ready yet. So if you kiss him and dont really want to and you just do because your under pressure your going to end uhp regreting it. So i would wait til the riht time that way your both ready and you will feel better than doing it to just get it over with
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