Question Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 9:59 pm
I have been going out with a boy and its been about a week. It seems like everyone I talk to knows that we are going out so then they ask "did you kiss yet" I want to say yes but the truth is no. So this weekend I am going to met him at the park near my house and try to get a first kiss but I am not sure if I am ready for it. Should I kiss him or wait?
dancergirl678 answered Thursday September 14 2006, 6:31 pm: the best thing to do, in my opinion, is to wait. you are still in the beginning part of a relationship and a kiss too soon can lead to problems later on. now if you've known the guy for like, ever, then that's another story. but the best first kiss is one that is unexpected because it is sure to take your breath away, *trust me* [ dancergirl678's advice column | Ask dancergirl678 A Question ]
sizzlinmandolin answered Thursday September 14 2006, 12:12 pm: If you are not ready, wait. When other people ask those types of questions, they're aren't judging you, they're just curious. It's okay that you haven't kissed him yet. There's no deadline for it. A first kiss is supposed to be special. It may take awhile for that special time to come. When people ask you about it, say either "hey, it's none of your business", "No, not yet, I want it to be really special", "Why do you want to know so badly?", or "leave me alone about it, I'm not one to tell you". Nobody needs to know unless you want to tell them. Don't think so much about doing it or waiting. When the time is right, it will happen. It doesn't have to be planned. Take things as they come. Good luck! :) [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
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