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my friend is obsessed!!
alright heres the background info..
theres this really hott guy at my school, Joe, and me and him are really good friends. well my friend jess went out with him last year and they broke up over the summer.
now the girl is completely obsesing over him! she never stops talking about him and shes always like OMG HES SO HOTT! its so f***ing annoying! i wanna slap her so bad! he doesnt like her anymore (i asked him) and she wont accept the fact that hes over her. she says she wants to get over him but she cant.
how can i help her try to get over him? shes really getting so annoying. i dont know how much more i can take! i mean i know the guy is drop-dead sexy but she doesnt need to say it every 5 seconds! please help me!!
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I know it's annoying, but you just got to think from her point of view. She probably still can't believe that her and this really cool guy broke up, and she misses him. It's going to take some time to get over. That's good though that she wants to, and it IS really hard sometimes to get over a guy. You just need to sort of lead her away from him. She needs to stop talking about him, first of all. Reminding herself of him isn't going to help. So if she begins to talk about him, change the subject or remind her to zip it about him. Help her focus on other things. Hang out with her more, go shopping, pick up a new hobby, join a club, try even getting her to flirt and talk to some other guys, hopefully getting her mind of Joe. Learn how to bake, anything you guys can think of doing. It may be a little hard for her at first to try and not talk about him and everything, but slowly over time she'll start to think of him less and less until eventually, he's no more in her mind. Oh, and if she talks to him too, she has to talk to him less because if she keeps talking to him alot, he'll keep "charming" her and making her laugh and making her realize how awseome he is, etc. I hope I helped.
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Dear my friend is so obsessed,
Your friend is proabably still in shock that it it over. She will need a little time but to pass time hang with some of your other friends and maybe you'll make some new ones too. Or simply try saying can we change the subject
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ok this simple tell her that she has to move on with her life and just talking about him will just make her more obsessed over him.. and if she keeps going tell her that she really needs to shut up about talking about him and that its getting on your nerves i mean its ok for her to say it in her head bout out loud gets on your nerves a little bit.. well i hope that helped a little bit
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well its probally not her faught she probally has deep feelings for the guy and your hearts a fragil thing... sooner or later she'll have to let go but just get her talking to some other boys comfort her. she may be annoying but shes probally really hurting inside it might take awhile but if your her friend truely you would be there for her!
<33 mary!
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