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Lies
ok so i have this friend and she is really fun to hang out with but she lies way to much and i cant talk to her about it cause i know that will ruin our friendship see she lies about things no one should lie about like haveing a tomber i dont really know how to spell that but anyways she also lies about her being pregnantshe has said she was pregnant but it was a miscarriage then she said she was pregnant again but she was going to have an abortion and she is only 15 she has done alot of bad things in her life that i'm not gonna mention because i'm not gonna rat her out but she lies about everything and i cant take it anymore i dont know what to do so please help me???? i'm really confused
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hey, okay well tell her that you only want to have a friendship with her if shes going to be 100% true to you at all times. tell her that you guys are friends and thta she doesnt need to lie to you to look "cool" or "impress" you. let her know that she can just be herself around you.
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To Lies:
Okay, your friend is obviously a liar from what i've heard. It might be because she is looking for a little more attention. Maybe from you because her parents aren't or something along the lines of that. Anyways, you should talk to her. If she's your real friend, she will talk to you because friends talk things out. So,maybe next time if you don't want to confront her you should change the subject. If she says like "oh i'm pregnant or whatever " just be like oh. and just go so... (change the subject)
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i used to have a friend like this when i was in 6th grade (4 years ago). i just kind of ignored it and was like "oh..wow..your a really busy person." i just played along in a way that was obvious that i didn't beleive her. eventually she got the picture and stopped making up those lies.
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I would confront her about it. It won't ruin your friendship (unless this girl is a bitch), letting her go on and on and lie will. Eventually she will tell a lie that will ruin your friendship so it's better to talk to her about it.
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