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what to talk about...
i never know what to talk about with guys either on the phone or in person. anyone have some simple ideas. this sounds dumb i know but i could really use the help. thanks<3.
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When my boyfriend and I broke up, it was weird talking and flirting with other guys because Daniel; was all that I had known...but I did find a trick...especially in person...Be the argesive one, be forward and very open..guys like it when you talk about them, or they get to talk about themselves really, so ask random questions! Like, "okay, were going to play the get to know ya game...tell me, what was the CRAZIEST thing you have ever done??" or" Where is one place in the world that you have always wanted to visit.." and "What was your fist impression of me when you saw me, Ill tell you what I thought of you..." Alot of times, I wouldnt have to ask more then two questions because the conversation just flowed so well after that and you can find things to relate on. Plus..I got TONS of dates. And everyone said they liked how confident I was...(men like confidense) I hope I helped, I was always shy, but just pushing the confidense out and getting them to talk about thmselves really does help...hope I helped you!! Let me if I did and how things go!
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talk about movies that are coming out. you could talk for hours about a movie you both want to see or one of you has seen and maybe you'll end up going together.
talk about music. it doesn't matter if he's into punk and your a pop princess, other way around, whatever =D... you can experiment in a guy's music. maybe you'll like it. and it's a great topic.
also, ask him about places he's been, thing's he's done. things like that
and about what he'd like to do/ accomplish.
hope I helped.
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the same thing happens to me. so during an ackward silence i normally look at the person and say something about them. for example like if they are wearing a band shirt you could say something like, "oh i've never heard of them, are they good?" and that could start a conversation. or one time i was talking to this guy that had a lip ring and i asked if it hurt to get it pierced. just little simple things can really start conversations.
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Let's see.. bring up topics that you both think are interesting. Sometimes I don't even know what to say when I'm talking to someone, so I just say random things and ask random questions. Like .. so what are you doing this weekend? Stupid questions can start long conversations.
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