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Whats up Ya'll, my name is Sara and what else can I say except the obviouse..Im here to help you! I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend Daniel for about 2 and 1/2 years now...and my GOODNESS have we been throught it ALL, anything you can think of, trust issues, love, hurt, fights, happiness, anniversary planning, trips, breaking up and making up...and not to mention he is my best friend and my partner in crime for LIFE!! So if you want a guys perspective, were the duo. I play the guitar, the flute and I love to sing, I even have a C.D. and I am a passionate painter. So yeah...Im always bored cuz I live in a little cow town for college right now, so Ill get to your questions FAST. No worries...Ive heard it all, and seen it all and my friends and I have been through everything too...so ya'll just FIRE AWAY!!!
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we did it like 2 weeks ago and she been feeling nasuaes and stomich cramps,i'm not sure wat to do i'm 17 and shes 15
Well, the best advice I can give you is to take a pregnancy test, alot of times it can just be her nerves...you know when your nervouse about something how your stomache can freak out on ya?? I know mine does...maybe just the thought of being pregnant is freaking her out. But, like I said, there is really only one sure fire way to know whats going on with that tummy or not, and that is to take the pregnancy test. If she's not, you guys lucked out! Just use more precausions next time, although the only way to actually completely prevent this is by not having sex. My best friend has been pregnant twice, one she used a condom, and the other she used the pill....But she STILL got pregnant. Now she has the most beautiful baby girl I have EVER seen and couldnt be happier. Its hard at first, Im not gonna lie, but if she is pregnant, congratulations, life is so precious. Just remember that abortion isnt always the right answer, my friend doesnt have two little ones because she chose not to have the first one...and it has haunted her ever since. Not to mention the physical and mental risks that are involved. but if you find you cant take care of a new life, I believe in adoption...But what the heck, you dont even know for sure yet!! : ) Sorry I rambled!! Im bad at that, and I really hope that things do work out for you two.... Please let me know how it goes!! And thanks for asking me, hope that I helped.
hi,my penis is not streight and its allways one side like left side,i dont know,what to do, is thier any excersice to make streight and is thier any cure for that,please help me and tell me is that thing can creat any consicounsess.is it bad,?tell me
thanx
Its normal to have a crooked guy...Im sorry but there isnt anything that you can do about it...they come in all shapes and sizes. BBut there is a very bright size to this...ALOT of woman actually PREFER a penis thats like yours rather than a straight one...during sex, you can hit places in side of her that most guys cant...so dont look at it as a burden, in the eyes of many MANY girls, your not so centered member is a blessing! (Besides, if you look at most dildos or vibrators now adays, they all have a little curve to them...so its gotta be doin' something!!) Good luck and feel better, I hope that I helped..if you have anymore questions just ask me!
ok me and my boyfriend are both 15 lol and have been wanting to go to the zoo forever. we never got the chance because winter came, so we were planning to go in the spring, which just started. today he asked hey would it be ok to go to the zoo with my mom and david too? davids their family friend, who i dont like because he laughs really loud and picks on me for not wearing a bow. i used to wear one in my hair all the time and it was him that actually made me stop wearing them. but anyways my boyfriend didnt let me answer yet and he went and asked his mom the same question. do you think im being i dont know what word to use...selfish i guess? because i want to go alone instead of with his mom and their friend? would you feel the same way? should i go alone or go with them?
You arent being selfish at ALL!! My boy Daniel has some friends that are the same way (one even kept going on and on to the point where I broke down and cried) Talk to him, he should understand that although you want him to be able to hang out with his friends and all, it would just mean more if it was just the two of you going...tell him how this certain friend makes you feel (Daniel totally respects my feelings about his friend, and still hangs out with him...just on different days and times that he hangs out with me) Just explain that you had kind of been hoping that it would just be the two of you this time, and that it would mean more to you that way (if anything he should be flattered that you want to spend special one on one time with him) but next time tell him that his mom is more than welcome to come along...just so he doesnt think that you are blowing off his family (which I know your not, Ive been through all that too girl) I hope that I helped you! Have an awsome time at the zoo..no matter who ends up coming...
Really this is awkward for me. alot.
Like i dont even know hwo to word this, its just some thing ive wondered.
But Do you girls ever release discharge while being fingered. and doesnt the guy find that gross to the extreme. Why doesnt a guy find it gross to finger a girl just is a little... i dont know.. "gooey?". ANd how many of you girls release dischage? Is it alot? Does it effect your sexual relationships? ANd do guys ever finger a girl and think, EW MY FINGERS SMELL AWKWARD. Yes this is really embarrasing, and awkward, but i would really like anserws seriously.
Actually, you're functioning perfectly normal and healthy if this happens...its saposed to. Just like when a guy is sexually aroused his penis fills with blood and he gets and erection, the same sort of thing happens to a girl. When she is stimulated, blood also rushes down under..her lips become a deeper color of purple and the clitoris becomes larger (just a bit mind you) and protrudes. Also...You get WET! Look at it like this..the guy doesnt just get an erection for the hell of it...it happens because his body is getting him ready to have sex, and it would be a little hard if not impossible to insert a limp penis. It has to be hard to enter the vagina...your body is doing the same thing when you discharge when you become aroused...Its giving lubrication to the area that the penis will enter, so that it can do it less painfully and enter with more ease. (Its practically like rubber against rubber if your not wet..and let me say OUCH!!) Although I have NEVER talked to a guy who didnt become aroused by the idea of a girl getting wet..(I mean, they know they must be doing SOMETHING right if they get that bodily responce from you...and besides, what guy wouldnt be aroused by the idea that YOU'RE getting aroused) Im sure there are a couple out there that do freak out. But girls in general look at it different from a guy, cuz we deal with it every day...(you're not all that facinated with boobs are ya? We got 'em....so there not that big of a deal to us ) But yeah, no worries...most EVERY GUY IN THE WORLD thinks its a total turn on... I promise...sorry I wrote you a book here, I didnt mean to go on and on like this...I hope I helped you! let me know how I did and how things go with you!!!
Hey. For my sweet sixteen party I'd like to have a slideshow showing pictures of my family and friends. The thing is, I really want some good songs that would go with a slideshow and are meaningful. Maybe about family or friends or growing up. Good songs too. So my question is, does anyone have any good ideas? Thanks so much in advance =).
Okay the best song EVER is "Over the rainbow" by Israel Kamakawiwo Ole...here is a slideshow featuring that song, I always wanna cry when I hear it..reminds me of graduation and old friends...."tear tear" But anyways, copy and paste this adress in your address bar to find the site..I hope that I helped you!! And good luck with your party! Happy 16th!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2A2Jt4WOxN8
ok last night i wore a pad
and i got a little blood on my underwear
and i have ben throwing a lot of underwear out
because they are stained too much
how can i try to clean them
Oh, I hate it when that happens!!! What I would do when I was caught in that mess is pour hydrogen pyroxide on the spot...(you know...the kind that fizzes??) and let that sit for a while, then scrub the S*&)T out of it! lol, this should take cae most of the problem..but if some nasty stain does stick around, then use bleach on it. Its always worked for me! I hope that this helps ya! Let me know if I did, and how things go!!
When boy celebs talk about their chest hair, girls scream and stuff. What's so hot about chest hair and back hair? I think it's kinda gross..
I agree with you...chest hair is nasty..I make my boy shave his chest, or I just do it for him... but yeah...I think that they get excited just because they are famouse...I mean, if Orlado Bloom blew his nose and threw the tissue in your face, it would probably be sexier then some random guy on the street doing the same thing...(if thats even a good example...) But really, half the girls in the world would pick up the dirty snot rag and keep it in a box somewhere...just because he's a celeb! Some people...(well I shoudnt talk...I have Phil Vassars grape juice bottle in a box...and some other county stars gum...no worries though, its not used!!!!) lol, I hope I helped ya!!! and stay away from the chest hair!!!!
15/f. i already have side sweeping bangs and i love them. but i want to change them up and make them more choppy. i want your guys opinions on if i would look good with choppy bangs.
this is me now:
http://img183.imageshack.us/img183/382/mebrightam1.png
i want bangs like these:
http://img183.imageshack.us/img183/812/nicehairjj4.jpg
do you think i would good with them?
plus how can i style my hair so it is kind've choppy like the girl's in the picture.
You are so cute!!!! I love your bangs the way tat they are now, but I also think that you would look cute with your hair like that too. Go to a stylist (I go to a salon/spa cuz I dont trust my hair to just anyone...) but Great clips has done well on my hair before....and show your stylist the picture of the hair you want..I bet they have a whole bunch of ideas on how to style your hair like this as well (seeing as they get paid to know..lol) but I would spray hairspray on your hands (not directly on your hair because it will weigh it down) and run your fingers hrough your bangs and finger style then to get this look. I hope that I hleped you!!! let me know how it goes!
I have very oily skin. I use liquid foundation and powder. It stays on when I put it on in the morning but usually when it hits around noon my face is oily, and you can see all the foundation that I put on. I have to re-touch my make-up all day. Does anyone know a kind of really good make-up to use that can stay on all day without me having to do touchups?
I had this problem too, but I found that any of the new MATTE MOUSE whipped foundation works wonders!! Its the only thing that Ill use...besides covergirl powder foundation ontop of that to lock it in. It stays on for hours and hours, and you cant even really feel that its there. It costs around 7-8 bucks, but I wouldnt go back to aything else...Hope that I helped!!
okay i know i you will probably think i am a total idiot but i need to know. okay the last time i was on my period i accidentally had two tamponds in at 1 time. can that hurt by body?
This CAN hurt your body...although the chances are small, having two tampons in at once increases your chance greatly of getting TSS, or toxic shock syndrom, an often deadly problem that you can read all about in the little pamphlet they give you in the tampon box...I went camping once with a bunch of friends...(and lucky me it was that time of the month...) but when I went to change out my tampon, I found 2...(you think we would have noticed that huh? But hey, now I know its happened mistakenly to at least one other girl! And you do too I guess...) but besides the initial shock of "How did that happen?" I was fine, still kicken today! but yeah, as long as you dont do this regularly (which Ive heard alot of girls do today...NOT smart) then you should be fine....I hope that I helped you out!! Let me know if I did!
Does anyone know any movies or books about the holocaust that have a nazi officer who helps out holocaust victims? I already have the pianist. Also, i don't want a link unless it has my answer right there... i've been looking on other websites already.
You should definentally rent out Schindlers list. Its very educational, and its also interesting and a GREAT movie!! Ive watched it at home as well as in the classroom...I love this movie, but it is really sad. I ope that I helped, and if you rent this one I hope you enjoy it as much as I did!
my cuzin said like this guy said BJ or something to someone and i was like umm what and apparently it means something that i do not know. could someone help me out
Thanks
(it might have been two other letters but i think it was BJ)
B.J. probably means blow job....or when a girl uses her mouth to sexually stimulate a guy....I hope that I helped??? I hope this is what you meant...
hey guys! well, i'm 14, and weigh about 161. i know i'm overweight, but i really don't look too fat. but i do want to loose some weight. what are some good tasting, healthy foods that will help me loose weight? and also, what are some things that i can do to work out. i know there is push-ups and sit-ups and stuff, but what else?? thanks everyone!!
Well, first off I want to commend you on your good outlook on health..its great to see a young girl who is actually interested in geting healthy through good eating habbits and excersize, rather then just reaching for the first bottle of weight loss pills (which typicaly dont work anyways) they can find on the shelf. Have you ever heard of negative calorie foods? These are foods that actually use more calories to digest then there actually are calories in the food itself! and there is a great list with alot of
variety....
http://ezinearticles.com/?A-Negative-Calorie-Food-List&id=71441 try this web site to give you a list of all these foods,(and if the site doesnt work, then google negative calorie foods, and you'll get a BUNCH of ideas including some great recipes!) As for excersize, its good to do cardio workouts just as much if not more then regular strength training...running is a great idea, or to start out even switching between running a block, then walking one...swimming is great because it works out almost every muscle in the body and gets the heart going....lifting light weights for a couple extra reps will also give you a lean sculpted body...just remember that cardio and strenght training (the weights and situps and stuff) work together as a team, and over time, should give you great results!! Hope that I helped!! Let me know how things go!
ok. i'm 14/f. i have light strech marks on my back, very noticable ones on my stomach, and a few (like 6) on the front of my legs. is that bad?? i think, actually i'm pretty sure, that i'm overweight, but i just need to know if having that many strech marks is bad. thanks!
Naaaw, stretch marks arent bad...most ALL girls get them. Ive got a skinny friend...and I mean SKINNY!!! Weve actually talked to her about gaining weight, but shes got some stretch marks too. Guess what, Ive got 'em!!! "I know this sounds horrible but my boyfriend sometimes calls me his little Zebra" lol, but know the only thing you should be worried about is your weight and health, dont let stretch marks waver what you think of yourself..and hey, there is NOTHING wrong with a little badunkadunk!!!
I have a boyfriend and hes awesome and everyhting and we KNOW we are SO gonna have sex VERY soon and ya any tips or advice 4 the first time over here :$ lol haha ya I'm 13 yrs old and my bf is 13 and we're both virgins
I don't want you to say you should wait you're making a mistake your too young blah blah blah Please just some advice for a virgain
Okay, hun I dont even care if you give me a bad rating or give the other girls the same rating on here, but they are all right. 13, I cant even comprehend WHY you would want to have sex at such a young age.....it is such an important thing and is taken way to lightly now adays...that is one thing that discusts me about todays society. Im 19 and have had a boyfriend for almost 3 years and we havnt had sex. no lie! I have a little sister...and shes even older than you are, I cant even imagine her going on a date yet, let alone having sex....please understand that were not trying to pick on you or dissapoint you...the reason that me and the others before me say anything about this is because we care. Were older than you and have more life experience...and let me tell you now, you are going to regret this...I know you are probably going to rate us all bad and say "I told you not to answer unless you had good advise" but honey, this IS good advise...and you obviously know what the right thing to do is, seeing as you put in your actual question what you thought others would say (I dont want you to say you should wait you're making a mistake your too young blah blah blah...) Please, dont go do something to please some boy, or be cool....13..wow, I hadnt even had my first peck at that age...
Hi, I have been trying for awhile to figure out how to make my vagina more attractive. When I shave I get razor bumps and the removal of hair doesn't seem to last very long. I haven't tried waxing but I'm a bit scared of the pain. And I would rather not go somewhere to get it done because that's kind of embarassing having someone go down their and fix the mess. Please help me find the answer to my problem, I am now willing to try ANYTHING. Thanks a lot.
I was terified to get a brazzilian wax...but hey, i did...so the verdict????Yep, pretty much hurt, but not as much as I expected....the pain was like a sharp pinch but it was over quikly after each strip was pulled. The hardest part was the thickist patch in the middle, oh my goodness....I actually yelled "MOTHER!" but once again it was over with quik..and the results were well worth it! as for shaving, I do prefer that, but to help get rid of bumps, they make special bikinni creams for that problem to eliminate ichiness and irritation, one is called "Bikinni Zone". Another tip I find helpful is when you first go to shave, go WITH the grain of your hair growth..in other words if it grows down, then shave downward untill you cant get anymore hair by shaving that direction...if you still feel stuble, THEN you shave LIGHTLY AGAINST the grain...this helps me alot and keeps me smooth...never dry shave, and a nice pretty style to keep in mind if you dont want to shave ALL your hair off is the landing strip, or racing stripe. Just shave everything except for a thin line of hair going down the middle. I hope that I helped...(I would go for the wax...but hey) And let me know if I helped at all!!!! Good luck!
i started my period yesterday
and i wore a pad
but i wasnt happy with that
since a few of my underwears are totally stained
so i got a tampon
and i slept in it
and 1st thing this morning i took it out
and got a pad
and then about 2:30 ish
i got a tampon and put it in
and its sooo much more comfortable than that other tampon [the one im wearing now is a sports one]
and i was wondering what do i do when i have to pee
do i take it out
or pee while im wearing it !?!?!
Its not the best idea in the world to sleep in a tampon..(but hey, I have no rom to talk because I do it...) It is a little risky...they DO make overnight pads for when accidents may occur...as for peeing with your tampon in, PLEASE PLEASE dont listen to the girl who said to take it out or anyone else who might tell you the same thing. Your urin does NOT come from the vagina wich is where you need to place your tampon. You pee out of a tiny little hole (not very vissible) above the vagina and below the clitoris called the urethra. Despite what suprisingly MANY girls think, you dont pee from your vagina. You can google this if ya want, or look up urethra in the dictionary, but your just fine peeing with it in, unless its time to change it out, then by all means take it out! lol, good luck and I hope that I helped ya!
ok, i've been dealing with acne since grade 5..i'm now it grade 10, have tried perscription stuff, didn't work, tryed noxema, tryed clearasil, and have been on proactive for about 2-3 years now. its not working all that great, any one have any other suggestions on what i should do? also, how do you stop whiteheads from forming on your nose??? i haven't been able to and its starting to really bug me. any tips would be great, thanks
alyssa
I know it might sound really weird, but try going on birth control pills. My friend struggled with acne for many many years, all throughout middle school and highschool, she tried everything that ou have so far, including pro active...well, her first year in college she tried birth control (her dermatologist recomended it) and I have never seen her with more beautiful skin. The birth control works with your hormones somehow (not 100% percent sure how cuz I dont use them) and can prevent breakouts. Just a suggestion, but I hope that I helped...let me know if I did and good luck!!!
Okay I totally like this boy and I want him to find out that I like him and also I don't because of my last crush but he is going to find out soon because my friend is going to tell him and I want him to notice me more just don't say something like be yourself and stuff like that all I want to know is something I can do do get him to notice me.
Putting yourself in the same situations helps..group work is a GREAT idea! Make a little extra effort to go and talk to him, also males respond greatly to touch. And I mean GREATLY! When your walking by him in the hall or hes at his locker, just put you hand on his shoulder and give a little squeeze as you walk by, then turn around and say something little like "hey" and flash a big smile! or when your having a conversation with him and he says something funny, just reach out your hand and touch his slightly for a second..(my friends come to me for advise on how to flirt all the time, and you are welcome to as well..believe me Ive tried all theses tricks and it landed me dates with EVERY ONE I tried them on.) but sorry...ontop of all this, realy just being yourslelf is the only way to do it...just put a little EXTRA of yourself out their for him to notice..I mean, you want him to like you for YOU right?? I hope that I helped, let me know, and let me know how it goes with you two!!!
Why do women get their period at the same time as their families and friends for example? Such as when they are together a lot or live together. I'm so confused.
Thanks!
Alot of women get their period at the same time because of pheramone. pherarmones can be picked up by other woman without them even knowing about it, through your sence of smell. Usually pheramones are detected by the opposite sex, usually picked up to highthen sexuality in men and women. My roomates and I all had different periods before we moved in together...then...a couple months in, were all sitting on the couch balling over a chick flick eating ice-cream and the bathrooms out of pads. We all picked up on each others pheramones and now we are all frequent with each other. I hope that I helped...and if you have anymore questions, dont be afraid to ask!!