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Gender: Female
Location: Houston
Age: 16
Member Since: December 2, 2006
Answers: 8
Last Update: April 18, 2007
Visitors: 1315


ok i have two questions.. at what age do most girl lose their virginity and how far have most girls gone by age 14 or 15

i would love as many answers as possible thanks in advance! (link)
at 15 i had went all the way.


me and my gf had sex were both under age the condom fell of so i stopped i didnt ejagulate its three days after and she's complaining of severe stomach pains could she be pregnant?? (link)
Uhmm i highly doubt it...
But you may have pre cum and it has just as good of a chance of getting someone pregnant too...
i'm "underage" and i'm pregnant too and it was about 3 weeks before i started feeling anything...
But if you are really worried that you can go to wal mart or any type of pharmacy or grocery store and get a pregnancy test...
I wouls suggest an EPT or a clear blue didgital because they can tell up to 5 days before your "missed period"
Chances are shes just really worried and have you ever heard the term "mind over matter" it can make weird things happen...
and are you sure that she isn't about to get her period cause that could be something to make her stomach hurt to...
If your going to be sexually active i would suggest using birth control...
Your parents don't have to know and there is probably a free clinic or "planned parenthood" in your area.
And if you are really worried about a baby honestly don't have sex because even if your using a condom or birthcontrol or both there is still a chance that she could get pregnant...


My room was painted last summer. But, I have to admit that I'm not to fond of the color. And I also noticed my parents didn't put much effort into it at all - theres a small blotch of paint on the floor, and on the very top and bottom of the wall, you can see the color they painted over. And I also said I wanted a color like a light baby blue, but they gave me more a color like a dull robins egg which I'm not very happy about.

I want to ask my parents if I can redecorate my room. Can anyone give me color schemes and great places for crazy furniture? (Like chairs and stuff. I got new dressers recently which I just plan on adding accesories to it)

I want my room to be OFF THE WALL. I want it to be absolutly crazy that its great to hang out in! I want it to be fun and a place you can just go to when you are sad and it will perk you up with it's crazyness. I was picturing 2 walls to be one color, and the other two walls to be another color. But I dont know what color.

I CANT spend a lot of money. I think that the most drastic thing I'm doing to my room basically is that I WANT a wooden floor with a crazy rug that covers like it except for about 4 feet from the corners. The problem is, my parents says it costs too much. (I can understand this. Which is why I want to maybe get that done first, and then spend little amounts of money on the rest of my room)

Can anyone give me good colors and stuff? I'm also looking for posters, accents (you know those decorative things you can add to things to make them look better, if thats what they are called ) color schemes, you know. Sorry this was so long. Thanks in advance. (link)
i get my crazy stuff from p.b. teen...
Pottery barn teen...

my room is hot pink and the ceiling is yellow...

But i would like my room to be a hot bluish color with a line green ceiling and doors...
i think that would be pretty neat...

Target and dillards have some pretty cool things...

and lowes too.


OMG! how do u like being a prego mom? i am 13 and i think i am too but im only 1 month does it get good or bad? wuts ur names picked out? (link)
It's pretty cool i get alot of attention and my grandparents are throwing me a huge babyshower..
I love it the most when i'm laying in bed at night with my boyfriend and we are reading to the baby and it kicks and moves around...
it's really neat...
and i deff love it when people rub my tummy...
it's an amazing feeling...
the first month is the worst month in my oppinon...
the whole first trimester really...
i like the second trimester the most...
you get suddend bursts of energy you're baby is kicking and you get to find out what it is...
i really don't want to know though...
my boyfriend knows..
i do know it is twins though i just found that out about 2 weeks ago!!!
i'm really excited...
If it is both boys their names will be damien dean and fidel alexander...
if it is girls their names will be summyr elaine and wynter elise...
and if it is one of both their names will be damien dean and delilah elaine...
i think you will like it when your tummy gets big and you get you first ultra sound...
that was the best part for me...
the greatest feeling in the world knowing just knowing that you created a person and you're gonna be a mommy...
and if you are congrats!
i'm really happy for you...
my mom had me when she was 13...
i don't look down on people getting pregnant at a young age even though i never planned on it...
it happened to me and i'm soo happy now...
it is scarry at first though i will admit...
But i do promise that it does get alot better...
sorry this is so long but...
you know i just get carried away when i'm excited...
all the hopes for the best...
and tell me what happens i owuld like to hear about it if you don't mind.
lots of love alix.


Sorry but I was just wondering. Are your parents mad that you are pregnant? You dont have to answer I was just curious. (link)
They were at first...
But then once i started getting big they were excited cause it would be their first great grand baby(my grandparents adopted me)...
Now they are verry into it and love rubbing my oversized belly...
Don't worry about it im not offended that you asked or whatever...
it's fine...


is anyone out there a teenage mom? can you tell me how your finding it cuz i think i might be pregnant. (link)
I'm not a mom yet but i am pregnant...
I was terrified when i though i might be i didn't tell my boyfriend or my parents that i thought i was...

About 3 weeks later my sister told my parents that i was having sex with my boyfriend and they wanted to put me on birth control.
They Made me take a test first and it was positive.
I went to the doctor and got it confirmed...

I figured i was because i was throwing up alot...
and my boobs hurt really bad...
and walking up the stairs seemed like an impossible task...
and instead of staying up till 3 in the morning i was in bed and ready to sleep by 9-9:30...
and of course i didn't get my period but that didn't worry me much since mine wasn't normal.

At first i was soooo worried about what people would think and say about me but then i joined a parenting class at school and found alot of girls that were in my place too.
One of them happend to be a friend of mine!

Now i'm 7 months pregnant and my bab is doing great accordint to doppler and ultra sound...
It's a little boy. Or at least i think it is... but you can never be sure till it comes out!

My counselor told me that i could eat crackers and other foods like that during class and they really helped with the morning sickness and to calm my little boy ddown when he was kicken...

But if you are don't freak totally.
It gets better I promise.
and if your parents are mad thats what your most worried about...
They can't stay mad at you forever, and truth is by the time you start showing and it becomes real to them they will start wanting to be part of it because it is there grandbaby.
And the thought of being a granny or gramps excites them.

Hope It helps some...
I know it's long and i probably bored you out of your mind with my story but i think it helps to know from someone who is going through it too.

I'm 16...
i got the throwing up part and stuff about 3 weeks after i supposively concieved...


I'm a freshman this year and this semester I have to do a report on being pregnant as a teenager. I have to write it like it was a journal and I was the teenager that just found out they were pregnant.

I've never experienced a relative being pregnant or being born.

I'm supposed to use my health book as a guideline and ask from several different people that have had children what their experiences were like.

I've already asked this question to one person on here, but I thought I'd go ahead and ask it to the rest of the site.

1) How [doctor, home pregnancy test, etc.] and how long into your first pregnancy did you find out you were pregnant?

2) Did you have morning sickness during your first pregnancy? If so, about how far along did it start and how long did it last?

3) About when did you start 'showing' during your first pregnancy?

4) [About your due date] Were you early, ontime, or late with your first pregnancy?



Thank you a ton, if you can help. Please forgive me if it's too personal.
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Well i'm a teenager and I'm pregnant right now.
1. I found out by pregnancy test because my parents found out my boyfriend and i were sexually active and wanted to put me on birth control and made me take a test first. I went to the doctor because it was positive, and he gave me another one which was also positive. He did a pap smear to find out where the fetus was positioned and pelvic tests. He drew blood and gave me nasty vitamins. I went in 3 days later for a ultra sound and it showed that i was 8 weeks pregnant already.(I kind of figured i was because my period was late but i was terrified to tell my parents or my boyfriend)

2.I had horrible morning sickness the first 4 months but, my school counseler told me that i could eat during class and gave me crackers and that helped alot with the nausea and what not. It started 3 weeks before i found out so i guess in my 5th week.

3. I wa pretty fit when i got pregnant. On the drill team so i started showing in my third month but I didn't start getting big until recently...My 7th month.

4.My duedate is March 12th and the doctor has moved it back a few days because the baby i bigger than it should be for this time. It was origionally due on March 20th.

I'm 16 and I'm supposed to be a mother exactly a week before my 17th birthday.
At first I was terrified what would the girls from drill team and school think. Well anyone really. Mostly my teachers. i found out it was a boy last month I didn't want to find out but my Boyfriend did so we could buy it clothes. The thing i'm most worried about is it being terribly premature or being still born(born dead) I stopped worrying about what people thought about me and realized this is reality I'm going to be a mother now and I need to act like it. I'm excited now.. What will he look like? How big will he be? Am I sure it's a Boy? And OMG what am I going to do runs through my head all day.

I know I haven't had this child yeat but i thought it would be nice to let you know from a teenage mothers prespective.
Hope I helped you some.

lotsa Love Alix


Thank you..
and i hope i helped your report some...


K well, you know how you have the preps, the jocks, the nerds.. etc. Well i guess you could say i fit into the prep catagory, i wear american eagle, blonde hair, 5'7", 140 pounds, straighten me hair, were cute make-up, carry a purse, wear a columbia sweatshirt, would never leave my house without my cell phone, love guys, love making out, like having more than one guy, ones not enough, not enough fun. But yet i always end up falling for one and then going out with them then want to be single so i can have fun with more than one guy... dont get me wrong, i am deffinetly not a slut, im still a virgin and i dont go and give a guy what he wants. So theres me. And idk.... I have all these guys that love me to death and would do anything to be with me. I can name at least 4 guys who would love to be with me.... but the problem is me... none of the guys that like me do i like... and when i find out a guy likes me i always end up leading them on becuase i know they like me and i try to like them also but i cant, so i ditch em'. and the one guy that i love has treated me like shit, but no matter what he does i cant get him out of my mind. and i have a new boyfriend.... ahhh what do i do? and i do like my boyfriend and i am trying to like him more and more, but i can not when my heart is still with my ex. A little saying i made... i have fallen into a whole and only he has the ladder to get me out. and that person would be my ex... but he has moved on and doesnt even consider the fact that he is putting me through so much pain and all i need is him... and i think he still has some sort of feelings for me, he still calls once and a while, hugs me, tells me i am hot, grabbs my butt, we went to snoball together and we slow dances, and fast danced and were all over eachother dancing and he kept on holding my hand and puting his hand on my leg and when we were slow dancing he wwas like holding me really close and tight.... ahh i dont know what to do... millions of thought running through my head. dont know what im doing or where i am going. im a disaster.
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When I first started dating my current boyfriend my ex of 3 years was ALWAYS on my mind. I told my current boyfriend that i still had feelings for him, (even though i din't know why he was horrible to me. He cheated on me with my then best friend!) At first I was pretty sure that he would dump me then but he was still pretty nice about it and i saw how nice my current boyfriend was compared to my ex. And even though it took a while to get over my ex i still gave my boyfriend a chance and now we have been together 10 months.
And yes it did take a while to get over my ex, and i still think about him from time to time, i dont let it get to me any more.
So try and give it a chance and see if you get over your ex (i know it hurts). And if it doesnt work out after that atleast you have ther satisfaction of trying. right? What can it hurt?

Hope this helped atleast a little. I know how you feel.
And i wish that someone could have helped me too.
Good Luck and Best wishes!
Alix





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