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I have a boyfriend and hes awesome and everyhting and we KNOW we are SO gonna have sex VERY soon and ya any tips or advice 4 the first time over here :$ lol haha ya I'm 13 yrs old and my bf is 13 and we're both virgins
I don't want you to say you should wait you're making a mistake your too young blah blah blah Please just some advice for a virgain
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Alright, well, I don't mean to be the causer of doom and gloom on you, but do you honestly think you're ready? If that isn't clear enough, let me put it this way: Are you ready for a baby? You're not even in High School yet.
My advice for a "virgain"? ...Don't do it when you're 13.
Just looking out for you,
Please, don't make this mistake.
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Okay, hun I dont even care if you give me a bad rating or give the other girls the same rating on here, but they are all right. 13, I cant even comprehend WHY you would want to have sex at such a young age.....it is such an important thing and is taken way to lightly now adays...that is one thing that discusts me about todays society. Im 19 and have had a boyfriend for almost 3 years and we havnt had sex. no lie! I have a little sister...and shes even older than you are, I cant even imagine her going on a date yet, let alone having sex....please understand that were not trying to pick on you or dissapoint you...the reason that me and the others before me say anything about this is because we care. Were older than you and have more life experience...and let me tell you now, you are going to regret this...I know you are probably going to rate us all bad and say "I told you not to answer unless you had good advise" but honey, this IS good advise...and you obviously know what the right thing to do is, seeing as you put in your actual question what you thought others would say (I dont want you to say you should wait you're making a mistake your too young blah blah blah...) Please, dont go do something to please some boy, or be cool....13..wow, I hadnt even had my first peck at that age...
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i agree with the first 2 girls...
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haha you guys make me laugh
but on the contrary
be smart
use a condom
SOME gas stations might have vending machines wiht them or the mall
unfourtuantly i live in the suburbs of Texas and condoms are not sold anywehre cept pharmacies
but its illegal for a place to deny the purchase of a condom
also
communication
thats important ot if you kids are just really into it
if it doesnt feel well you might wanna give him some tips like whispiering cause yelling it is a total turn off
probably being self conscience as i was youll most likely change what youre doing
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Are you suggesting we encourage you to go ahead & do it? No. You said you don't want to hear us say you're too young, but it's true. Sure, sex may seem like something you're ready for & something fun you'd like to experience with your boyfriend. But no one is ready at 13 years old! It's really sad seeing girls your age already having sex. Being ready for sex is being ready to deal with any consequences that may follow. Like I have said before in other advice, no 13 year old in today's society is ready to take care of a baby. I'm sure my opinion is "wrong" to you & it's not something you want to hear. But word from the older & wiser - you WILL regret it. Maybe not today, or tomorrow, but you will someday. Have fun while you're still young & don't worry about sex at your age. There are a lot of "awesome" people out there, but that doesn't mean you need to have sex with them. Wait till you're older & in love. It'll mean so much when you're more mature & it's with someone special. I wouldn't lecture if I wasn't looking out for you.
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k well not giving tips to a 13 year old about sex. it's morally wrong to. your making a mistake and your gonna regret it.
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