Really this is awkward for me. alot.
Like i dont even know hwo to word this, its just some thing ive wondered.
But Do you girls ever release discharge while being fingered. and doesnt the guy find that gross to the extreme. Why doesnt a guy find it gross to finger a girl just is a little... i dont know.. "gooey?". ANd how many of you girls release dischage? Is it alot? Does it effect your sexual relationships? ANd do guys ever finger a girl and think, EW MY FINGERS SMELL AWKWARD. Yes this is really embarrasing, and awkward, but i would really like anserws seriously.
SaraBean answered Wednesday March 21 2007, 10:35 pm: Actually, you're functioning perfectly normal and healthy if this happens...its saposed to. Just like when a guy is sexually aroused his penis fills with blood and he gets and erection, the same sort of thing happens to a girl. When she is stimulated, blood also rushes down under..her lips become a deeper color of purple and the clitoris becomes larger (just a bit mind you) and protrudes. Also...You get WET! Look at it like this..the guy doesnt just get an erection for the hell of it...it happens because his body is getting him ready to have sex, and it would be a little hard if not impossible to insert a limp penis. It has to be hard to enter the vagina...your body is doing the same thing when you discharge when you become aroused...Its giving lubrication to the area that the penis will enter, so that it can do it less painfully and enter with more ease. (Its practically like rubber against rubber if your not wet..and let me say OUCH!!) Although I have NEVER talked to a guy who didnt become aroused by the idea of a girl getting wet..(I mean, they know they must be doing SOMETHING right if they get that bodily responce from you...and besides, what guy wouldnt be aroused by the idea that YOU'RE getting aroused) Im sure there are a couple out there that do freak out. But girls in general look at it different from a guy, cuz we deal with it every day...(you're not all that facinated with boobs are ya? We got 'em....so there not that big of a deal to us ) But yeah, no worries...most EVERY GUY IN THE WORLD thinks its a total turn on... I promise...sorry I wrote you a book here, I didnt mean to go on and on like this...I hope I helped you! let me know how I did and how things go with you!!! [ SaraBean's advice column | Ask SaraBean A Question ]
sugarplum07 answered Wednesday March 21 2007, 10:31 pm: All girls discharge. It's normal. You can't help it. Guys deal with it. He should be smart enough to know that he needs to wash his hands after doing those things. Some guys think it's gross and others don't. You would be unhealthy if you didn't have discharge. It's not like we have a choice. [ sugarplum07's advice column | Ask sugarplum07 A Question ]
grayrainbow answered Wednesday March 21 2007, 8:36 pm: 1. yes girls relese discarge its normal and its not that grose i mean it wont be squirting out everywhere but your finger will get wet
2.all vaginas relese discharge like all the time
3.all areas down there smell okward what do you expect lavender? i mean ya your fingers gunna smell like a vagina all vaginas smell that way
its perfectly normal
4.most guys find the wetness soothing
hope i helped
--ashley
dont be imbaressed =] [ grayrainbow's advice column | Ask grayrainbow A Question ]
katie_babey answered Wednesday March 21 2007, 8:34 pm: well i release a little bit. But the guys that have done it to me really dont think its that gross i dont know why. Im sure its gooey lol but it doesnt effect my sexual relationship at all. Its really just like a girl sucking a guys dick and getting his juices in her mouth. I get grossed out a little by that. But if you guys kiss and make out i dont think its a big deal getting that shit in your mouth or on your fingers. Im sure guys think their fingers smell weird but i think at that point they really dont care. ok i hope that helped you a little bit if you need to ask anymore questions im here!
~katelyn~ [ katie_babey's advice column | Ask katie_babey A Question ]
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