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Next level?


Question Posted Wednesday March 21 2007, 7:31 pm

Me and my boyfriend have just kissed, nothing else. We've been going out for a while, and I'm ready to try something more. How do I let him know that I'm ready, without really telling him straight out?

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iiyaBABYx answered Thursday March 22 2007, 6:19 pm:
Mm,
well without telling him,

when you guys are making out and stuff,
touch his leg, make him take his hand and put it on your leg.

rub him, if you guys are on a bed,
start to make him lay down and get on top of him.

but if he starts to touch you or do something to you that your not ready for, stop kissing him nd move his hand up to where you feel comfertable, or say "i'm not ready for that yet."

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icey0990 answered Thursday March 22 2007, 2:37 pm:
Like the others said..next time you guys are alone and kissing..getr into it more..rub his leg..or take his hand and put it on your leg or somewhere else..we arent supposed to instruct you on sexual activities on this site so i am tryingg to keep this ppg lol. but if you want to talk more about ggraphic things you can IM on AIM MY SN = icey0990
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madem answered Thursday March 22 2007, 1:00 pm:
As the previous answer said, you could put you hand on his leg or inner thigh, or you could even go straight to unding his belt/unzipping his jeans.
But personally, I would talk to him about it first. Then you can establish how you both feel about it, and whether you are both ready. If he's not ready, then you will just have to wait until he is.

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chuckweed007 answered Thursday March 22 2007, 1:32 am:
I'm assuming by the "next level" that you mean some sexual stuff, even if you dont mean intercourse yet. Maybe the next time you guys are making out, just get real passionate about it and maybe put your hand on his leg or inner thigh if you are brave enough. I have a feeling that this will send the message to him pretty quick.

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